Hopefully everyone whos reading this has at least a couple girls in there phone book if not then youd might wanna look into this for help first http://ajandjordantalkchicks.com/compan ... -txt-book/

but for those of you who have txted girls and maybe you txted a little to long and the girl lost intrest or maybe she just got really busy and your txt got shuffled in with the others she gets on her phone continuasly...

Then heres a solution thats works great for that problem, firstly it has to be fun, secondly it has to stick out among the dozens of other txts she gets which il explain in a minuet, thirdly it has to peek her curiosity and make her want to txt back, now how do you do that?

Well to start make it fun... any guy can say "what's up" and she gets that so many times she just ignores it 90% of the time. so instead say something a little crazy and different like "Whats shakin bacon! " or "Whatcha up to Tuff Stuff!" it conveys your playful and not all so serious and boring like all the other people who are txting her.

Now a good way to make a txt stick out is to assume what shes doing and make it a little outrageous for example "Whats Crackin Muffin, let me guess your robbing a bank again, your always finding a way to get into trouble lmao jk " This gives her a little room to give you some playful attitude and for you to start talking.

lastly to peek her curiosity, now theres several ways to do this, for instance "Whats Crackalackin Tuff stuff, i just had the weirdest dream about you lol!"

lastly and most importantly i cannot stress enough how important emoticons actually are considering she cant see you then she doesnt know if your playing around or not... emoticons help convey how your feeling when you say something like " hey muffin your such a dork" she can take it completely the wrong way then as if you were to say "Hey muffin your such a dork lol " makes quiet the difference.. hope this helps you as mutch as its helped me.

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nice thank you

Emtocons are DLV imho. Only women and 15 year olds use them. If I say something playful I add haha, or lmao to indicate I am joking. That's it. If she takes it the wrong way- that's on her. Also text language like, ur, h8 ect ect is DLV.

well M2 think of it as txtual body language... would you ever walk up to a girl and say your such an alcaholic and laugh with a straight face? and since shes using them why not use it to your advatnage and mirror those things... for instance using abreviations like h8 and such would only benifet if the girl your txting is using it .. it creates a subconcious sense of relation beacuse your mirroring how she txts and she feels somewhat of a relation to you .. she may or may not know why but shell more than likely feel it.

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Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

If she's not responding to my texts after i've texted her a good 4-5 times with no response...let's say this was over a week or two.

I just text "Fuck you." guaranteed that she will respond

all you have to respond back with is "how else was i supposed to get your attention' and then continue on with what you wanted to talk to her about

I can certainly work with this advice, thanks!

Sorry dude- but I am not feeling that, mirroring is something they should be doing to you, not the other way around. This is DLV all the way. You should be setting the tone for any interaction or scenario.

I have walked up to women and said with a straight face, "You're such an alcoholic." I did it yesterday as a matter-of-fact. She giggled and we moved on with interaction.

Also- intelligence is DHV. The smartest hunter was normally the one who was able to bring the most food home. Using poor grammar, spelling or cutesy bull shit text language shows you're unintelligent and immature.
This is just fucking terrible. Why the fuck would I care if she texted back? Flaky bull shit shouldn't even be on your radar, you should have so much ass to choose from you wouldn't even notice if she texted back. Saying "Fuck you" is just burning a bridge and showing her you actually fucking care and more importantly that you noticed. You're giving her your dominant frame. This is god-awful advice.

I text once- if I don't get a response, I go game other women. End of story. Terrible.

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firstly when you said that did you smile? im not saying you have to, but it helps or has with all my interactions,with mirroring well ... as a man were the ones who need to lead and create feelings of comfort, i only use mirroring when in rapport to create emotional comfort and such, then shes more able to open up to whoever shes interacting with and be herself, doing this over txt reasures that comfort even if only a little bit.

Now rastafarian1 i wouldnt exactly use that message unless you want a nice F&*# you to and her not to ever respond or her to just never respond to it in the first place and you look like a complete douche, or if it does get her attention it might not be the atttention you want lol, thats where the funny light hearted part comes in, i could say "f u" and she could be like ok "f u to" you just made my day horrible, or i could say " Hey my little penguin ninja you still alive?!?! or should i send a search and rescue party for you lol! " and she could laigh and i just made her day.

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if actions speak louder than words then imagine what your intentions are screaming

to succeed you must learn, to learn you must first fail

Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

You shouldn't mirror at all. If you want to make her day and end up her BFF, have at it. I'll enjoy fucking her.....I should have taken the blue pill.

lol so your saying i shouldnt have her enjoy talking to me? and i agree with you to an extent .. if people mirror as a way of trickery to make a girl fall for them then they shouldnt use it but if its to aid in building and re-affirming attraction then id say its ok, and i know for a fact youve mirrored girls yourself.. maybe not consciously but everyone mirrors who they like ... whether they like it or not, the only difference is are you gunna take advantage of that tool and use it for good or stay nieve of it and only use it subconsiously when you feel attracted?

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if actions speak louder than words then imagine what your intentions are screaming

to succeed you must learn, to learn you must first fail

Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

I don't mirror- I make a conscious effort not to. They mirror me, I have seen them start using my phrases, mannerism, everything- it's eager to please and validation seeking behavior. As are these horrible texts. Most PUA don't mirror as a rule. They remain dominant.

All of this is LJBF- you need to reframe and, maybe research PU. If you want to be their best friends, then by all means, keep doing this. If you want to be a man, use your dick and maybe even start something, then don't do this.

when i say fuck you, i mean to just say random stuff that makes no sense that she will have to respond to


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lmao rastafarian1 that was pretty good i like that and that would work perfectly, and M2 im only giving advise on whats worked greatly for me maybe what works for you is different but until you try something you can never be sure if it works or not, i can look at an awesome camero all day and buy it but if i dont test drive it first how am i to know whether i like it or if it even works at all, same thing with pickup, ive had great success and have done plenty reaserch and ive found being lighthearted for stressful or akward situations lightens things up and makes you the go to guy for a good time, and im not just a big flirt i do rapport and emotional connection/ kino (touching)/ bodylanguage ect.. im just saying as long as you display you dont take stressful situations to serously and your able to loosen things up it makes you pretty attractive then the over sexual alpha male.. but its only my point of veiw and whats worked in my experiene. only trying to help those who like my methods and find that it works for them as good as it has for me.

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if actions speak louder than words then imagine what your intentions are screaming

to succeed you must learn, to learn you must first fail

Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

When I text, I always use good punctuation, spelling and grammar because that's just who I am. But I have gotten a lot of responses from girls about texting like that and it's always been good. Also, I'm a believer of the emoticons. I will rarely say "haha" in text and never "lol" or "lmao" or anything like that. I think a quick smiley face is a good way to get a playful feel to a text or even a disappointed one :/.
Just my personal opinions on things and what's worked for me in the past, but I do like where the original poster was going with his ideas.

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Not sure I agree with that since the point of mirroring is to build strong rapport in a short amount of time by making someone feel like you are like them (subconsciously) whether you are, or not. And it should be done in such a way that they can't pick up on it consciously but just end up feeling more comfortable. By waiting for someone to mirror you, you are putting the chances of quick easy rapport on them instead of taking the reigns and having the upper hand in the situation. If someone always texts with abbreviations and smileys, doing so back to them would make them feel they are more like you and hey would naturally be more compelled to get to know you. I feel that sometimes texting PERFECTLY is annoying because it puts pressue on the more laid back person to text better which will make them uncomfortable and want to text less because they feel less intelligent.