hey yall
ive got some trouble. at school we've got a group with 6 boys and a girl. i was new last year and i introduced myself and stuff and in a short period of time i became really popular but i couldnt handle it. People started copying my behavior and things i did. I didnt like it to be honest. the only girl of the group fancied me a lot, she wanted to date me and she had all kinda tricks to do it together with her twinsister. she even wanted to get me drunk so i would like her (lol)
im very smart i think but i act like i dont know just to see their "cards", to see where they are up to. I figured them out and stuff and i didnt like it. so i backed off.
the former amog regained control and i am like.. take it. dont want anything to do with them. i just want to be in the group so i dont look like a loner.
but here's the thing.. they all hate me now at least not like me. the amog has made an "army" so to speak just to put me aside. i cant get in control whatsoever. when i speak everybody negs me. when everybody laughs and i start laughing with them they all stop laughing.
that kinda shit.
i hate it, how to recover from it ?

The problem is, you let go of your control to begin with. It's probably gonna be impossible to maintain a middle ground since you didn't start there. Especially considering the other alpha sounds like he's probably insecure, since he's turned the whole group against you. Is there another group that you can become a part of?

You're gonna have to face another fact too. If you don't like being the leader, you more than likely are going to get walked on, trampled on, negged, put down, and all kinds of other stuff too. So, it's basically either be the leader, or be shit on.

I'm guessing you're in high school?

I was in a situation somewhat like this. (Yes, I'm in HS) Except that insted of being the new kid, I was in this situation for a few years with my "friends." They would neg me and give me shit over stuff so one day I was just like, you know what? Fuck you guys. And I walked away. Made some new friends and pretty much took control and got in with several different groups. So, while they are sitting on there asses playing video game and what not, I'm actually out with people doing something. The best piece of advice I can give is to not take there shit. Either give them a piece of your mind and tell them to knock it the fuck off, or leave and find new friends. I really do enjoy putting people in there place by verbally raping them in front of a large group of people. If the amog gives you any shit, in the middle of the hall or a crowd (works great in front of his group) just go off on him.

YOU are the alpha! YOU do not take shit! If ANYONE gives you shit, put them in their place. People copied you for a reason, show them WHY!

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