Well, this is my story, I breakup with my girl about 1 year ago.. I was the one who cut the relationship.
During that year, I was experimenting the game and interacting with a lot of different girls, and I realized that I love my ex, I didn't find anyone like her.. I told her that I love her and I fucked up, I regret a lot of things, I really love her... yes I was a idiot for ending the relationship...

Now she wants to be with a lot of guys.. and that really hurts me...she is very influenced by her best friend.. that friend is a slutty type of girl...
She's fucking a lot of different guys and I feel empty, she wants to fuck my best friend too...
I don't believe in love, and I don't wanna be with any other girl, I feel that love doesn't exist and I find my existence really pointless.
I'm 25, and she is 29 years old... She's not very pretty, I would she's a 5, or 6, but I love her...
I'm feeling like mystery when he breakup with katya (The Game book)
And I know the best way out to this kind of situation is the NEXT girl, but i don't find any other girl really attracting.
Also, like I said before I don't believe in love, I believe that always there is a point in all relationships that one cheats eachother so what is the point?

Fuck a lot of girls = empty
Creating a relationship = cheat (sooner or later), if nobody cheats then one of them will cut the relationship hurting the other person...

It is really worth this pain? really worth suffering this for 2 or 3 years of "good moments" I really doubt it... this feels like shit I feel like nothing else matters... Always in all relationships is going to be one person hurt

I'm sorry for my bad english, is not my first language, I hope you understand... I would have liked to express myself better...

stand back from all this situation as if you were just an independent objective observer of it--look at it from a safe distance,recognise that it really sucks,that its pretty shit--and then say to yourself ''But im much more than just this''

i think there are only two healthy options you can choose at this point:

1. forget her
2. you and your best friend plow her double-team and you give her the anal reaming of a lifetime

either way, you will feel better than you do now.

also, does she have a mom?

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oh god i know exactly how you feel. it hurts. bad. when this happened to me i litterally would have rather had both of my hands choped off. you dont think youll ever be able to move on but trust me you will. itll take a while tho. it took me a month and a half. i suggest you go get proffesional help. i couldnt tell you how to get her back. i honestly dont think theres any way of getting her back at this point. hopefully one day shell realize what a slut shes been and get back with you. but thats unlikely. i would get a counseler.

Dude, you say you don´t believe in love?

Imagine life without love. Imagine being always alone, image no sex, imagine no cuddling_and on it goes...

It IS worth it.

She has become a slut (like her best-friend). Well, she´s not any better than the majority of this forum, is she? Sex is a natural thing which occurs on a daily basis. Human does it. Animals does it. It´s just sex for fucks sake

You will be fine

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It is time to cut all contact and move on. She obviously does not respect you if she is trying to have sex with your best friend. You need to respect yourself and find someone that treats you well. And yes, it can be worth it, if you find a good person to be with.

Suicides the easy way out. Thats what keeps me going.

if the op kills himself,

not only will he be the douchebag whose girlfriend banged his friend,

he will be the super-big-douchebag who killed himself over it.

lol

the point is: don't kill yourself (it just makes you a bigger douchebag)

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Sounds like you need a find a way to make yourself feel good about the situation! And make yourself feel good by doing things you enjoy! Forget about your girl, then find another one once you feel better.

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suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, to do it is a very stupid move

i was once in that situation. girls turn into major sluts after you end a long relationship with them. it's their way to boost their ego and getting back to you. what you need to do is realize that the only reason she does that is to hurt you back while boosting her confidence. she doesn't care about your feelings at all. that's why she wants to fuck your best friend. she's an egocentric whore, and it sounds like you deserve someone better. it's easy to say "i'll never find someone as good" and just be a little bitch about it. it's harder to get out of your comfort zone and meet new people, eventually you'll find someone better and you'll laugh at how you used to cry over this dumb bitch.

I've been in a similar spot. It feels awful, but here's what I've come to realize: Yeah there probably are girls out there better than her, you just can't get them. You can probably think of girls that you would sleep with or go on dates with if they came to your door and were interested. Unfortunately your game isn't good enough to get those girls, and logically also not good enough to get the girls better than them. This is the hardest point in the process. You are at an extreme low. Things can only get better if you make it through this. When you begin to seduce new girls and have some emotional connection behind it, you'll realize that you're better off.

You're 25, can you move? It's far preferable to suicide and offers you a whole new set of people to work with. You'll have an obligation to go out and learn some game, or you'll be spending a lot of nights alone.

Just move on buddy. Get her out of your mind.

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thank you very much for the replies guys... it's a very hard time, plus i live alone so it's feels worse...