That is retarded in my opinion. People care about eachother and if she cares she won't "fuck guys for the thrill of it". I dont fuck other girls when I'm in relationships and I'm possible the world's largest pervert. Where do you get this outlook? Bad relationships?

Anyways, not too contradict what I just said. Short story. Ex boyfriends will always have a place in a girl's heart. I broke up with my GF couple months back and guess who was the first person she got in contact with? And he was a total clingy possesive douche bag, and not even the manly wife beating version, I'm talking crying outside your window creeping Tom type.

I assume she is close with his family? By no doubt in my mind, HE will try to bang her. Girls can be very loyal though, a girl with high self respect will tell him to bugger off. You cant do much without looking like a idiot. Just let her reschedule with you.... Or you can freak out, look crazy and tell her she can't see this boy who has a dieing family member.

The more you try to uncover dirt on people, the more you find and you will never be happy with any girl. Not sayig there is dirt, but the road will lead to relationship self sobotage.

Good luck,

Relabel this thread My GF is going to fuck her EX. You know the bit were DR No's evil lair is about to explode and the klaxons are going off, thats your relationship.

YOU.ARE.FUCKED. (unless you can forgive her or some such bullshit)

Death/Emotions/Ex sexual partner/alone .... Im more likely to put my nuts on the table... hold aloft a brick and bet money it wont hurt when it lands than say - he at the minimum wont TRY to fuck her. She will want to emotionally comfort him, he will require it sexually, starting with physical comfort and building up from there usual kino bollocks.

1 move before multiple check mate options, honestly .... I gotta give him credit .. dont hate me guys but I gotta say it's a shame that isnt a reusable routine, either that or it will push me to hang around at funerals.

You need to somehow be their the moment this occurs, remotely, psychically. Phoning to make sure she is okay, but you gotta somehow predict when it will happen. Even if you do it will more than likely goto voice mail.

High stakes mate, all or nothing. Remove her usual condom stash and put a condom in her handbag, that she isnt overly familiar with, so when she goes in there to get one out she will relate it to you having put it in there, which might disrupt her train of thought enough to remotely cockblock him, then let her backwards analyse the ramifications of that shit.

Probably wont do, probably fuck him in the heat of the moment and wont even strap up...

High stakes though if she somehow doesnt, you will have some explaining to do lol.

I can honestly say that if any of my ex's needed me for something like that I would definitely be there for them no questions asked. I've personally been in the situation where I had to pull the plug on someone I loved and it's VERY, VERY hard- absolutely devestating. I can't believe that people would be so selfish to not think about how this guy feels right now?
That said, I wouldn't even THINK to sleep with an ex . That's why he's my EX and not my husband-
I agree with the guy that said you must all have learned this stuff from really bad relationships. If you really have that point of view in life maybe you should look for more quality women instead of skanks that you have to worry about being cheated on . There are some wonderful women out there, stop falling for the bitches!

I dumped her, too many unanswered questions and weirdness over the last week! I don't want to go into detail...

I'm glad I've got rid as I can do better and I'm worth more! Got a date tomorrow so I'm forgetting and jumping straight back in!

excluding misselizabeths defense of the sanctity of women, were some of the other .... cynical responses more accurate?

Not totally accurate but it's clear she still has a lot of feelings for her ex! It turns out that the exs grandad lived in the house beside my gf! Now he has passed away this guy is moving in beside my gf! She was blindingly uncomfortable having me around her so close to her ex! Shit was going stale....I deserve better! It's killing me but I'll get over it.

goddammit dave,

i feel for ya!

fucking women.

shit, man.

just shit.

gftow and god speed

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To be honest it's a learning curve! I'm never going to be involved with a girl who is still linked with her ex every weekend and at family stuff.

I've got three dates booked now! Only annoying thing is that I'm not on Facebook so she will never know I'm dating so quickly...

These are girls I've kept on the back burner for months

dave,

i LOVE your style!

haha...

go live life, man!

and report back the details.

sorry you had to go through that shit.

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Good man Dave u did the right thing! Now plow on with your new options! All the best mate

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Be the FIRST to sell shovels during a Gold Rush---!___!

If she did end up cheating, don't feel too bad. It happens to the best PUA's/seducers.

Maybe you can demote her to a Fuck Buddy if push comes to shove.

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see the next time you two have to meet up, cancel and tell her your ex wants to have a chat and meet with you and you cant meet her that night.

play them at their own games, even it was innocent she'll get the point!

ach good luck fella, if you have only been together 6 months there might be some residual emotions, your not in some LTR. +1 for the lifestyle outlook.

the biggest issue with my girlfriend was her not cutting these types of x flings and ex boyfriends out of her life. we broke up because of it. Now we are back together months later cuz we both love each other but before I agreed to be back with her. I told her this:

"I can appreciate that you have had previous relationships in the past, so have I. And I know that when those previous relationships come and knock on your door you do not see a reason not to respond because you know that you would never do anything to hurt me. All I ask, is that you understand how i feel when they come knocking. I feel like we are being disrespected and I get anxiety, the same anxiety you would get if I was receiving msgs from woman from my past about how they would love to still be "friends". I do not feel good when these past men contact you and you entertain them. As long as you care more about how I feel than keeping the lines of communication open with these men, then I feel we can move forward in a positive direction."

She then said "I will not talk to them anymore"

So now I must trust that she will not talk to these people because she doesn't want to disrespect us and give me anxiety.

I think when women want to keep in touch with these x's they are unsure about their future with you.. that is why confidence is so huge in relationships. I also think it has to do with lingering "what ifs" and immaturity.

BINGO!

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