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PostPosted: Mon Sep 05, 2011 4:44 pm 
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Anyone ever been called out for being a PUA? It happened to yours truly. Used a line, girl saw right through it, said she didn't like it when guys made her prove she was worthy, ect ect, how did you handle it? I fessed up, made no apology and then ejected.

I like how some of the girls assume all PUA are alike....as though it somehow defines me, or my life or outlook on women ect ect. The sad thing is, because she was intolerant and didn't take the time to get to know me, or my motives for being in the community or even why I say qualifiers she will never get to know what an awesome guy I am and Ill never get the chance to see how unique she is...if there are any women out there lurking reading our posts, we aren't all the same! Each man in here is different. Oh well....


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 05, 2011 5:05 pm 
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Why are you asking this question? You know the answer already: nobody cares about what she thinks if her thoughts are that plain and uninteresting.

Edit: Also it kind of depends on how hostile she is. I mean, if she's not that hostile you can always tease her for being so scared of PUA's she doesn't know how to handle herself and build some rapport by explaining what it is really about (getting to know each other in a better way).


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 05, 2011 8:57 pm 
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Why are you asking this question? You know the answer already: nobody cares about what she thinks if her thoughts are that plain and uninteresting.

Edit: Also it kind of depends on how hostile she is. I mean, if she's not that hostile you can always tease her for being so scared of PUA's she doesn't know how to handle herself and build some rapport by explaining what it is really about (getting to know each other in a better way).
Yeah- got shields but thought she still seemed interested, very strange. I get the feeling she's been gamed in the past and whoever did it broke rule one of PU: Leave her better than you found her.

C'est la vie


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 05, 2011 9:19 pm 
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I only got called out for indirectly chatting up a girl.

My SPAM tries making fun of my 'womenz' hobby, but whateffs.


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I only got called out for indirectly chatting up a girl.

My SPAM tries making fun of my 'womenz' hobby, but whateffs.
Hey- if it's getting you laid, and you're having fun meeting new people, who gives a shit what they think. How is the sarging on the moon btw? LOL out of this world perhaps? Haha- bad joke, but love the location


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It happened to me too, even though I use my own material if any.

Girl: Are you a pickup artist.
Ezo: Yes I am. Interesting, you know a bit about our world then? I take my lovelife seriously and basically all pickup is is understanding basic human psychology and not make all those moronic mistakes everyone always does that makes a relation break.

And the second time.

Girl: So you have like a girl in every port then or what.
Ezo: Yep, thats correct... No, sorry just kidding, I dont have one in Hongkong and not in Argentina either.

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PostPosted: Tue Sep 06, 2011 12:14 pm 
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It happened to me too, even though I use my own material if any.

Girl: Are you a pickup artist.
Ezo: Yes I am. Interesting, you know a bit about our world then? I take my lovelife seriously and basically all pickup is is understanding basic human psychology and not make all those moronic mistakes everyone always does that makes a relation break.

And the second time.

Girl: So you have like a girl in every port then or what.
Ezo: Yep, thats correct... No, sorry just kidding, I dont have one in Hongkong and not in Argentina either.
Yeah- it kind of throws you off guard, but the nearest I can figure, if you're honest and keep gaming you should be alright, you'll just have to get through the shields first.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 06, 2011 1:34 pm 
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Try this reframe: "It's amazing a guy will prepare himself only to have a chance to meet you.".

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Try this reframe: "It's amazing a guy will prepare himself only to have a chance to meet you.".
That is essentially what I have developed since then, I even ended my last field report with it.

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It happened to me too, even though I use my own material if any.

Girl: Are you a pickup artist.
Ezo: Yes I am. Interesting, you know a bit about our world then? I take my lovelife seriously and basically all pickup is is understanding basic human psychology and not make all those moronic mistakes everyone always does that makes a relation break.

And the second time.

Girl: So you have like a girl in every port then or what.
Ezo: Yep, thats correct... No, sorry just kidding, I dont have one in Hongkong and not in Argentina either.
Yeah- it kind of throws you off guard, but the nearest I can figure, if you're honest and keep gaming you should be alright, you'll just have to get through the shields first.
I think you misunderstand. I am not talking about being thrown offguard, rather the opposite. I have no problem with being a PUA, I will certainly not apologize to an unknown girl for what I am. If she doesnt like what I am, it is her problem, then I find someone who does.

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PostPosted: Tue Sep 06, 2011 5:11 pm 
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I was so scared of this in the past. Now I kinda like being busted. Those situations are always hilarious.

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"Well I enjoy the company of interesting women if that's what you mean"
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2011 8:37 pm 
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Never happened.

But I don't use canned material.


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serves you right for using canned material, you can't get pissy at her getting pissy if you've just robbed yourself of your dignity

I've never been called out for being a pua, but normally if anything for being a player.

the last time it was on a date, where the girl who I was with had seen me kiss another girl when I initially chatted her up. she brought it up and and I was like yh i did and laughed it off and that went by fine

don't get me wrong though I do understand how much it can catch you off guard. I was about to kiss this girl before all of a sudden she started accusing me of being a liar and a cheater without any solid ground to stand on :S that one I didn't manage to wriggle out from, not that they are true btw, she was just nutz.

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