I met this girl from another school. She is 19 years old and she is about a 9. The problem is that she talks to me as a friend and I want to change that. Any suggestions?

That's really not enough info. Do you ever see her? Do you hang out with her? Do you kino her? How and when do you talk to her? If you don't want to be just friends, you have to kino and build attraction.

I see her almost ever weekend and i hang out with her most of those weekends. When we get to talk in clubs and stuff i neg her and dance with her. Any comments on how to build attraction?

Negging her is fine, as long as you don't go overboard, and balance it out by rewarding her too, for something she's done right. Those things will help to build attraction.

Now, as for the dancing, hell . . . you SHOULD be able to build attraction fairly quickly, and even intensly, by dancing with her. Do you touch her while dancing? Do you run your hands up and down her legs or her sides? Do you push her away at times or pull her close at times? All of that kino while dancing, which SHOULD be autmoatic while dancing, will help tremendously to build the attraction. Also . . . you NEED to get a kiss in there too.

So, how long have you been meeting her on weekends and dancing in clubs with her w/o pushing things? It may take a lot more work than necessary if you've been doing this for a while as a "friend."

We have been meeting in clubs and stuff for about 2 months now.

Wow! Two months? Frequently? Have you kissed her AT ALL in those two months? Have you done much kino in those two months? From what I'm getting so far, it does sound like you are deep in the LJBF zone, but I still need to know more.

EDIT: With most girls you meet in clubs, you SHOULD kiss them that very night, and in fact, NOT LONG after you first start getting to know them. I'm talking, within the first 10 minutes most of the time. Sometimes it will take a little longer. That doesn't have to be a deep, "let's fuck" kiss either. But, if you DON'T kiss them (this even includes you pushing them away if they try to kiss you at first, which is effective at times too), then that's one sure fire way of hitting the LJBF zone pretty quick. Because they will start seeing you that way, instead of seeing you sexually.

Thanks for all the info man. I am going to try some of your ideas and see how it goes.

Taste I think you are on the right track I just hope you are not in the LJBF zone if you want some help tell me which girl it is since we go to the same high school.

How do you know you go to the same school?

Because he is my friend and I know his nickname

Kino Kino Kino, everytime you see her she'll get the idea, if she talks to you like a friend and starts telling you her problems stop her right there and say why don't you tell your problems to your friends and Kino some more, good luck.

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