Ok well I met this girl one night over the summer and we just happened to be going to the same college. I never speak to her again untill college and by the 2nd time we hang out (first like 5 days since moving in), I get her in bed but she refused to have sex because she doesn't want to wake her roommate up. So we just make out then sleep.

About 2 weeks later we go to some small party together and go back to her room just me and her. I was major AFC at the time and failed to do anything and just watched tv and left. This was prob a huge turning point in our relationship because I'm pretty sure this was my chance to f-close.

Well it's been a month and a half since and we both started hanging out with different people (our dorms are far apart) and I stopped pursuing her. The thing is, we still hang out about once every 1 or 2 weeks. Usually just get dinner together but she's a cool chick and conversation flows well.

The thing is last night we went to some hockey game to see some kid play that we both knew and I was picking up a decent amount of ioi's (the most noticeable was that she was clinging to my arm on the bouncy subway ride).

I think that im nearing the LJBF zone though (if im not already there) and last night made me want to change this. So what's the best plan of attack here? I don't want to start calling her all the time asking to hang out and come off as needy. What if I said something like "So, when are we gonna finish what we started during the beginning of the year?" Yes it's cheesy and blunt but its also the quickest and easiest way if it works.

Basically I just need to avoid the LJBF but at the same time not creep her out and ruin our relationship.

Nope, that makes it sound like you've been thinking about it ever since. You have, but no need to let her know that. You want her to think it's no big deal.

I'd set up a situation where you're doing something with her that will lead to either of your apartments. Invite her over on some pretext. Hang out. Maybe lay on the floor and watch a video together (chick flicks work well for this). When the movie is over, Turn down the lights. Light candles. put on music. get close and talk. Get closer, and make your move.

Good luck.

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haha i agree with zen to a point. make sure you institute some kino before you even think about lighting candles and putting on some berry manalow, because if you dont build more comfort before transitioning phases like that it will seem abrubt and she may get uncomfortable and leave and that will be the end of that.

good luck,

PB

Yeah, PrettyBoy has point institute kino so shes used to it. If you have to depending on how often she talks to you. You could try freezing her out first. Then when she catchs on to you ignoring her do the above. By freezing her out first you can find out if she's still interested. This is assuming you haven't froze her out yet.