me: hi talia. lol. do u go to my church?
her: do i know you?
me: idk but theres nothing wrong with meeting new people now is there. lol.
her: and may i ask where youre from?
me: im from springfield. anyway. i have a question that only a girl can answer. u ready?
her: umm. maybe.
me: ok. i know this may sound silly but would u read ur boyfriends email if u thought he was cheating on u? lol.
her: wow. um. nope.
me: k well my friends r waiting for me. bye.

and at that point i just gave up. anyway. i was trying to do an opinion opener on her. what do u guys think i need to change? what did i do wrong? thanks guys.

hey i generally dont like opinion openers, i mainly just go for observational or functional and just transition from there.
But ya add in a false time constraint, for example " hey i gotta go back to my friends soon...but" and ur opener.

Make sure you say it slowly and with a loud voice cause if you say it weak, she will look as u as weak and not confident.

Just chuck in a FTC and ur opener- SMILE and loud voice then the HB will respond to you more positively.

Hope that helps

i cant talk louder this was on facebook. lol.

Correct me if i am wrong,

but you spoke her on FB, and she didn't who you are? And then you ask for an opinion?

This creeps her out!

LOL. quote The Rock, " it doesn't matter what you think"

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This is in the wrong section. FB is not "in field".