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 Post subject: Hey, i'm new here
PostPosted: Fri Sep 02, 2011 2:03 pm 
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Hiya, Neil here..apologies for how unnecessarily long and badly structured this is lol, but here goees.

>where you're located
County called Berkshire in the UK.

>your age
16- little young, i know. speaking of which, any good college posts around? wouldnt mind a read. I've searched 'college' before, couldnt find anything

>how you got into "the game"
Not sure really, google dating advice>>yahoo answers>>pua forums

>how long you've been studying and practicing pickup
Couple weeks, havent looked at it much though yet

>which pickup method(s) you like to use
Haven't tried any out really, except for some S&A on a friend at a party just to use it but ofcourse it came out completely jokily. Reaction gaveme the impression it'd work though if i could get into that mindset. Hard though, not used to kind of directly projecting a sexual mindset lol.

>what your hobbies/passions are
guitar guitar guitar. what your goals are
to be honest i'm not looking for sex until marriage, and at the moment just looking to become more confident with girls in the long run, but short term while i'm in college to get some kiss/number closes, maybe heavy petting and that at parties who knows. I think one of my main things to work on is approach but lets get to the next section

>and whatever back story you wish to share with us
okay so as i said i'm 16. My background on girls in terms of 'doing stuff' with them is..well, i have none. I'd say i'm fine with girls, but i've never kissed one before. Lets go from when i was about 13, i liked this girl till i was around 15. I then went on a weekend away and met this girl, lets call her X. Didn't hit it off amazingly at the weekend, but by the end a nice friendship was there. Ashamed to say after the weekend we weren't in a position where we'd see each other often so after the weekend, i started a Facebook conversation with her. started around 10.30pm if i remember, then had such a good conversation that suddenly it was 1am and she had to get up at 7am so i knew things were good. we basically carried on talking on fb and it got to the point where we spoke every day. shortly after that it was the Easter holidays and we were talking and she said we should meet up. so we met up, went to a crappy gig which i paid £8 for, didn't pay for her, then we kind of hung round town for about half an hour, during that time i realised i missed a kiss opportunity but ill get onto that, then we went back to hers. thinking about it now it seems ridiculous, we went back to her house and we didn't kiss. At the time i wasn't sure whether it was a friends thing or more. anyway i'm making this longer than it needs to be. the date i just described was in april. we went out overall three times. the second time it was hot and we went to a park and went in a rowboat and stuff and even though i hadnt dated before i thought it was great. we really seemed to connect and stuff and i had the courage to tell her i liked her and she said likewise. problem was, exams were coming up and she didnt want a relationship. the larger problem though was that i was due to move house to 2 hours away in a few months time. bottom line is, i've been on three dates in my life all with her. loved them, although i could never think of 'date ideas'. I never kissed her during all that time for an odd reason, i didn't want to. I thought about it while we were together, i knew she wanted to, but then i imagined myself in the moment doing it and i wasnt scared, i just didnt want to. i wasnt particularly attracted to her physically so much as personalitywise but i think back then it was just my immaturity.

Sorry that was so long/waffly.
time of writing i'm 3 days before i start college. I've moved house to a different area coz of my dad's job and i know literally no-one. My plan for college is just to socialise loads with everyone i meet, or try to without coming off odd. Make a friend in my first class, try and stick with him/her, meet their friends and friends of friends and so on. I also need to get myself into the parties they have their asap.

I'm quite interested about day-game though. I think it would be good experience and good for confidence and that if i tried it but i cant find posts on it. if anyone could link thatd be good. Also i need to work on approach and closing.

Thanks

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-Neil


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