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I´m fairly new to this but i´ve been absorbing a heck of alot of material to see what I have been doing wrong all my life as an AFC. And i realize one simple thing: All the PUAs have one thing in common: THE SETS SHOULDN´T LAST LONG!
I am finding it much easier to get a number now and close while rapport/attraction is still high and then make up some excuse to leave and get back to my friends. Unless it is going SO HOT that you want to isolate and try to change venue in the same night. But that is much more difficult than just getting the number, which is what usually happens.
So is it really that simple? Was I really doing well all these years but just stayed in the set for an hour or two until it became anti-climactic? Should i just break off with a target when rapport is at its highest?? It seems to go against one´s instincts to do that, yet, from studying the routines that PUAs run, i don´t see any of them staying more than half an hour in a set, unless, like i said, it really gets hot. They just go from collecting one number to getting another...
I do agree that its much easier to close fast, since at that point you are the center of attention, this new interested person who automatically gets +Extra attention and value. Though I don't think its a good idea to take number and leave, UNLESS you have a plan of what you are gonna do next. Once you leave her, her state will change and she won't be the same as you left her the next time you meet.
I believe I heard it in one of the courses, that what is impressive is to close after an hour,two or a day - not after 5-10min.
p.s. what are you doing after you number close with that number? what's your fallow up?