Dear all,

i'm a newbe here but i'm at the point of losing a HB10. Furthermore i really love this chick to dead. I need your guys help bigtime!
here's the situation:
i saw here once before 7 months ago-
last week i facebooked this HB - asking if she would go to a concert. we changed numbers and met up there. as i read 'the game' i was really brave to step to here friends, have a 5 minute chat, and put on a fake timerestriction. she was impressed of me.
after a few textmessages, and 3 days later, i asked her to go for an icecream. she was working, so i suggested to go to the place where she worked and come up with ice. as the store was emtpy she said ok. i came in - really shaking from nerves because i really dig this chick for such a long time (but have been travelling long time)
i came in the store with 2 melted ice creams, gave it her shakingly
she was also shaken.
we had worldst most icecold conversation ever, sitting 2 meter away from eachother, having cutting silences all the time, we both became red faced everything! so i fucked off, with fake time restriction, after a silence of almost 20 seconds!!! i was so nervous i couldnt even smile. after 2 minutes i had the impression she gained more confidence than me.
it was a horrible nightmare experience, it was like talking with your mother after she found some drugs in your room!

that night i texed:
ME:strange conversation he, next time with some music and wine
HB: ok but i wont sing x
next morning:
ME: good morning sunshine, yes offcourse with singing, i think you are the best of the world in singing
-no reply for one week so far

i didnt came out my house after the last time i saw her. i m afraid to see her accidently in the city and screw it all up.

in 2 weeks there is a party where we are both going to,
it is my last chance to fix this. i will approach her one more time and try to fix it. so now only me, my room, no work and PUA-forum reading untill than.
i'm willing to do everthing to fix this!!

she is a HB10, i'm an attractive man as well, but since i cant talk with woman, i only get a one night stand once in a while, from chicks who come grinding to me whitout even talking.

please, where did i go wrong?? what to do next when i see here standing in the club with here friends around here? i cant start negging :/
please all help!

Hey man,
Sounds like you kinda messed it up on the date, you needed to be more relaxed and just let everything flow. Treat an HB 10 like you would treat an HB 5, they are both girls with the same flaws. In terms of what you can do from here, I think you blew it man... I think the only way possible is next time when you see her get some social proof. For example start talking to other really attractive woman and she will notice you. When a guy is with other attractive woman, they automatically become attractive to ALL woman. You also need to look at this from the stand point of: You are the prize and she has to pursue you. This will make you appear dominant around woman.

Some books you should read:

-The mystery Method

-Guy Gets Girl

-Anything by Mehow

Best of luck dude, there are 3 billion girls out there so just keep practicing!

**** any book or video by mehow would be good to read. He has alot of good stuff

thanks a lot for the reply guys.
i just wanted to send her a compliment message of a picture on FB, but decided not to do it after reading this.

In the mean time I checked her facebook, and she was tagged in a lot of pictures with all handsome muscled man on parties everywhere the last days.

It's kinda hard to me not to say 'hi' to here, when i see we are both online. but from the other point, I WOULDNT KNOW HOW TO CONTINUE and fuck it up definilty. so i shut up.

Kind a funny that my last technique will be to attract and flirt with every girl except her. but if it works, she must have -indeed- a feeling like, this guy got something?!?!

I will go in search for the books on internet.

Thanks a lot for the help,
you guys are upgrading my life since the day i m a member
further and more tips are more than welcome