Ok , so I went starting to send PMs to some pretty hbs on facebook , and to no avail,because 90% of the chicks ignore it (the other either give a neutral response , or a negative one )

It's bad for me because there's nobody in my country that uses Okcupid and POF,and that becomes hard,as facebook , is kinda the only site where I can meet girls online.

The only other way to meet girls for me would be on the streets or at the mall (no chance in highschool with the girls,unfortunately).

So i sended openers gotten from here,or a simple Hi , or sometimes I used something refering to her profile , but it didn't all they do is ignore my message.I don't really think im that ugly,or am I ? I want an honest oppinion guys (promise I won't get hurt)

Here's my fb profile : http://facebook.com/gabi4play

I want some really good advices with the openers so that they could respond properly!

lol nah man wtf ur alright. yeah i tried to add girls too, with a mutual friend, 1 added me and then deleted me in a few mins, none of the others added me haha. so its pretty hard, they are too used to getting attention from random guys. lol.

Yeah that's why I prefer cold approach , Online dating sucks actually.

Now I know many people won't agree with this but I do. Online dating sucks. I mean...how am I supposed to really know her? I don't even see her. I can't see her body langauge can't hear her voice. I can't decide whether I want her or not this way. Yes I could just set up a day 2 and meet her but then again it's like almost the same as a cold approach. I don't need to waste my precious time online for shit I can do on the field.

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Yes yes dude!!!!!!!!! You know my feelings.You don't really know how she feels and you can't really do anything about it.You know when we are face to face,and she feels disinterested,and doesn't continue conversation,you can bring up a big silence , and make her notice a lack of interest from you.But if you are online she won't really know that , and most of the time she ignores that. In face to face you can bring DHV by your behaviour , and make her curious about you when in online it's usually the other way around. Texting game is a bit the same , but you have her number and that is always good start , and better than only having her fb . You can also call her.Also my anxiety is at it's highest levels when chatting than when Im hearing her voice , I found out that online dating is good for some , but it's not the thing for me.

Well... It's not just that I can't really game her. It's that I can't tell whether I want to or not. Her full personality can not come through the internet afterall...

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Well my gaming suck online.There was this pretty girl which I was face to face,and I did pretty good for the 1st overall.(she was smiling , giving me IoIs and shit)It was just practice but I did good.

Hmmm, i # closed many girls on facebook, i like online sarging because i still have AA. girls do not accept strangers, she does only if she has 4765 Friends or she found that you don't seem like a stalker, wussy ect. so if she accepts you in her freinds list, consider it an IOI.

First of all get a picture that demonstrates your confidence, social value ect. this is the most effective way to show you're valuable since you can't use BL.

For example, you in a party, looking to the camera, standing straight. laid back cool look, with glass in your hand, and girl(s) laughing around you...

After an HB accept in in her list, freeze out, you want to look like the busy guy, don't let everyone have a look at your photos, only if the are really demonstrating your social value ect... repond 3-4 min after you receive a message. don't stay on for long. be always the one to end the conversation. if she's talking about a subject tell her to be brief becaus you have to go to *somewhere* in 5min. ect

If a girl adds you, then deletes you.it's a bad sign! this means you have to work on your private profile, status, links ect! share one link per 3 days or so...just keep in mind what would be the attractive attitude when talking to an HB face 2 face?how to use/show it online throw status updates, links, comments?

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Golden Rules i learned:
1- If you complement do it a serious way.
2- If a conversation starts with a low vibe and seems not getting anywhere, be direct but not on an emotional level.

Anyone who says they have connected with random HBs on FB are either

- Talking absolute nonsense.
- Have been really riding their luck.
- The girls must be either really trashy pseudo-porn stars who will just accept anyone or, more disturbingly, are really lonely obese middle-aged men posing as an HB!

Seriously, think about it, girls will have their bitch shields on when online and if they receive a random message from someone they have never met before then, erm, regardless of what the message is won't they be a bit puzzled and wondering who on Earth this random guy is and why he contacted her? I somehow think it is more than likely that the girl will be weirded out or whatever.

It is all very well seeing the profile of a random girl who looks very attractive but seriously, unless you really have met before then all you can do is look but don't touch.

I agree with this. I mean she has met so many guys , why she would talk to you?They can be more funny than you because those guys know her,and she dropped the bitch shield for them,and even if they are AFCs they would still be better than you.It's a fact.

who the f cares? You spend no money, it takes hardly anytime... The effort required to find a girl online isn't much. the process has no importance.... results are all that matter. Add 100 girls if only 2-3 are down to go out, as long as they're cute who cares how many you skipped. ALso it's a good way to weed out girls who might not be available, or have natural sexual chemistry to your type.

Online dating sucks but the + is that there's no AA and it gives you a chance to practice online openers. I've had a few meetups from people online too. It'll probably suck compared to cold approaching until we invent a matrix or something but I'll be too old by then anyway. Oh well.

Yeah i got added and deleted once, and it was through mutual friend but i didnt know the girl, i added her saying, hey do i know u from this school? I went to that school only for one year and stayed under the radar intentionally, then i told her she can add me cuz im a nice person in case i dont know her, this was meant as a light hearted joke, anyway she added me adn then she deleted me 5 mins later.

When I hear 'online dating' I think of match.com, not facebook. I have never once even dabbled in facebook for meeting girls, mainly cuz I use my facebook just for close/real friends. etc.

The only guy I know who pulls hot girls straight off FB is a plastic surgeon with a kick ass profile with pics of himself in Nice yachting and shit like this. Not saying you guys can't do the same with far less...just sayin what I've seen.

Another friend of mine regularly adds random 9's and 10's he finds on FB. He tells me they always add him, but never respond.

I'm not any of those options!
and in face to face game, you're not the random guy? you magically become familiar?
Curiosity! women are curious. they use lines like "Do i know you?" and i respond with the famous "Not yet"

I'm not saying it's better than face to face game, because body language is missing, voice tone too ect... but it's has it's advantages...
I'm not that good at PU and still have bad inner game but i get hb8-9 numbers online!

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Golden Rules i learned:
1- If you complement do it a serious way.
2- If a conversation starts with a low vibe and seems not getting anywhere, be direct but not on an emotional level.