Was texting a fine little HB8.5 earlier. Things were all going well until a friend texts me. It went like this...
"You talking to my girl."
"Yeah."
"Can you stop?"
"I don't really see why, are you guys dating or something?"
"Well... almost... Do you like her?"
"She is cute and all dude, and hell she is hittin on me hard man."
"Respectable."
"So I wont lik get in front of you or anything like that, but if she is goin after me then I'm takin her, and if she goes after you, fell free. So no hurt feelings no matter how it happens?"
"Yeah, may the best man win."
"Ha! It has nothin to do with who the best man is, but all good man."



So it seems all good right? But shortly after, the HB goes from super flirty, to stricken puppy and just kinda shies away. I know it has to do with him cus they were already talkin. So he basically broke the bro code with a cockblock, its within my ability and rights to return fire then correct? I just wanna get some good ethics in here cus even if chodes dont play by the rules I'm only gonna do whats right.

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couldnt your friend argue that you broke the bro code first?

were you aware she was before he txted you?

You knew she was his girl, as you said "yeah" when he said "You talking to my girl".

Bullshit, if they aren't dating, she's not "his girl." If he's gonna sit there and try to AMOG you in a goddamn text message, admit they aren't dating, but try to psyche you out anyways? fuck em. That being said, once your so-called friend asked you to stop it may have been worth actually talking to him about what's going on rather than just treating him like any other AMOG. I'm not big on picking the game over friendship. If he's your actual friend, its worth having a real conversation.

So...bro-code? He shouldn't have been a cockblock, he should have talked to you like a friend. If I were you, I'd just call him out on acting like a punk, that he has no business getting in your face right off the bat. I wouldn't really deal with the girl, either. If she's gonna shut down cuz he tells her to do so, meh she's weak.

Not cool to mess with your friends' game.

If one of my mates would say he really likes a girls he hasn't even talked to at all, I'd even consider her taken. All the bro-code crap aside, fucking over your mates will bite you in the ass one day. I have no problem with boyfriend destroyers of any kind, but I will pick a friend over a girl anytime.

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Go.

You broke the code. Your supposed to promote your bros cock, not compete with it. I think that set is pretty much botched. You displayed low value. No big deal. NEXT!

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Dude, I don't think you did anything wrong. She is not HIS girl. Maybe if you knew that he was madly in love with her, and he's a good friend, you could show your respect by not hitting on her.

But if she is hitting on you, and there's mutual interest, it's different. He can't tell you to stop talking to her if they're not dating.. fuck that. You were honest with him which is good, and he said "may the best man win" so it's fair game.

And if he told her to stop flirting with you, even though they're not dating, then if anything he broke the code. And if I were you I would keep flirting with her.


Btw- I'm in a very similar situation as you, so I may be biased but I'm rooting for you

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