Ah, the magic of IM/text messaging. I don't know why it always works, but it always works. Suddenly you can talk about things with her she won't talk about in person. Amazing.

Glad you sorted it out. I agree, she's probably gonna feel obligated now. I'm not sure you need to play it so cool at this point, but go with what feels right. I think you'll have the situation under control in no time.

Well done.

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so after I just posted the text conversation I hop in the shower and get another text saying "do you want me to?" then since I didn't respond I get "I won't if you don't want me too..." lol, I just wrote her back and said "sorry I was in the shower, you do what you want, you don't owe me anything..." Obviously she does but I'm gonna play it off like its no big deal, at this point I'm looking forward to stickin my cock in her mouth tonight, she's one of those chicks that kisses all hard and passionate when she gets horny and from my experience those are the girls who give head the best, fast and hard... lol

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Like I said, the situation seems to be under control. Enjoy yourself.

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I would have left off the "you don't owe me anything", but other than that, obviously you've got her hooked, especially since this is the THIRD night IN A ROW that you figure she'll be staying over. Sounds like you got yourself a g/f there buddy.

definately NOT a g/f... I'm not that dumb to get involved in a relationship when I'm still new to the game and pulling ass on the reg... (that's my word for "regular", not to be used without the written consent of Advice, Inc.)
If it does come up I'm going to tell her I'm so focused on my job and finances that I couldn't be a good boyfriend, that way it's a DHV and she'll likely stick around and enjoy what we have going already...
Besides, I got some catching up to do!!! It's gonna take a 10 with a mouth like a shop vac to take me off the market pimpin....

anyways heres a pic, I'd say she's an 8...

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Yeah, she's "fuckable". I'd agree with that.

just grab her hand / head whatever it is you want, and put it on your dick....... what's the rucking problem?

Good suggestion . . . BUT . . .
As you can see, he's already tried that.

apologies, I was neglectful in my attention to detail when reading.

in that case, I would whip my dick out and slap her in the face with it...

but all jokes aside (thought I might actually do that), I would tease her a bit, tell her you won't charge her with sexual assault if she grabs it. Perhaps offer to teach her how to give a blow job properly.

If she thinks you are insinuating that she is inexperienced, she may try to prove you otherwise.

LA Trip - you're rather a late-night poster aren't you?

I still say she's "damaged", as in she's had some kind of bad experience. You just have to find out what it was and get her over that, if she's worth it to you.

horseradish, I do tend to post late at night either after a club closes or after my girl goes to bed or something like that.

A few of us don't work your typical jobs and can be found posting at varying odd hours. I will hardly post for a stretch of maybe 4 days, then I'll have a day or more off (7 this time) and so I'll post like 20 times a day in there.

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Agreed she has some bad experience in her past, but I'm not sure you want to open that door. You can help her get beyond it without discussing the actual bad thing.

Read some David Shade or NLP and then hypnotize her.

Or, just keep doing what you're doing, I think you're on the right track.

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I personally think hypnotizing girls is gross, but David Shade is GOOD STUFF. I highly recommend it.

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I tend to agree, Rye Lee, but you have to love the stuff where Shade hypnotizes his girlfriend to think she has a cock.

She could probably use NLP on herself to get beyond her cock aversion, but that's a whole 'nother topic.

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Wow, I haven't read that yet. So far I've only gotten through Secrets of Female Sexuality, but the rest are in the mail. I think I got just about everything he had on his site.

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