Was introduced to several PUA forums 3-4 years ago (this being the best one) after being really bad with women, even though having good looks. Always ended up in the friend-zone being too nice. Got really interested in this PUA stuff and wrote a word-doc with a lot of information on how to improve myself with woman and life generally.
Few months later going "from nice_boy to cool_boy" after applying a lot of PUA stuff, I got myself (2,5 years ago) my first serious relationship. The reason I went into this relationship was to develop myself sexually (not a good thing to base a relationship on, I know. Think Hobbit (admin here?) mentioned that this relationship was doomed, and he was right… read further), but she was a hot woman. I have always had better than average looks so getting a pretty girl wasnt that hard with all this new information.
Naturally in all men lies the premature ejaculation mode (you know… the man who can fertilize a woman fastest will produce the zygote ) So there I was, virgin and all, finishing my first sex-session after 5 pumps. But hey, I had sex, it still counts! Not a virgin anymore... Applied a few things from this forums, like how to get off a woman with fingers and tongue (first times she was really excited, had never had an orgasm before), but 1 year later I still couldn´t last more than 30 seconds…
She said my premature ejaculation wasnt a problem because I could get her off in other ways, but we both knew it was a problem. It ended up with her sharing sex-pictures over web-cam with her ex-boyfriend but we (actually, I) continued our relationship (just look at old posts from me, crazy shit!), because apart from the sex, we was the perfect match (you know, personality)
Look at the post here:
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Again I started to apply things from this forum on how to remove my premature ejaculation (started doing Kegels and you know the other things said in here) My sex problems was still there… couldnt last longer than 30 seconds, so I ended up giving her several orgasms with fingers and tongue everytime we had sex… which had gone from 3-4 times a week to once to twice a week - always me initiating
We ended up moving in together (1,5 year after our relationship started because we matched really good apart from the sex) – really bad idea. Meanwhile I started to last longer in bed, now 1-2 minutes and still obv wasn´t satisfied, she wasnt either. so I upped the training. Suddenly she went away for a month living at her mothers house far far away (during vacation) and both of us knew that things were going stale. During this period I really improved my stamina in bed by doing excersices and buying a fleshlight. MAJOR IMPROVEMENT
3-4 months ago, the day after she came back to our apartment I busted her making out with one of my best friends (both drunk) at a party.
Had foreseen this:
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I broke up instantly. The next day we contacted the landlord because I want to move out, but he said we had to live together for 1 more year due to the contract (what a situation). Ended up having make up sex once during the next week – I couldn´t come. We both thought this was due to the special situation (a little thought in my mind was thinking on the fleshlight training tho). Me being able to last this long gave me really good confidence and I didn´t care that we werent together anymore. We went out with friends and I started talking with other women, started being more with friends and didnt care what she did. But she didn´t do anything to anyone else. She clinged on me. All the time. Something had changed
The next weeks we had sex like 5-6 times a week and we still have. We are not boyfriend/girlfriend anymore. Fuckfriends? We are officially single and no one knows we have sex apart from her girlfriends. Been 3 months now. I can now choose when I want to come inside her and our sex-life has gone from 1/10 to 8/10 - due to a simple device I bought from the internet.
She has probably ”fallen in love” with me again due to this change, and due to the fact that we match so good together, now also with the sex
She wants to get back into a relationship (always asks this after sex) but HELL NO. When I had PE she had total control of the relationship and I was afraid of what she would do being out alone (just look at all posts I have made during the last 2 years!)
The situation has changed. We are not together anymore. She wants to be, Im not going to get back into a relationship with a cheater (even though I can understand why she got frustrated). She hates when Im out with the guys now. She always wonders where I am. I can choose when I want to have sex, becuase she initiates (never happened before)! I never ask for sex anymore. I now feel like the fucking king knowing that I can satisfy a girl with my penis, not only with fingers and tongue. I have started to look at other girls now. Dickhead still having sex with her? Maybe. Is it smart to have sex with her now? Maybe not.
I dont fucking care. Right now life is awesome and I would like to thank...
...THIS FORUM
TOTAL CHANGE OF MY LIFE
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