So you have been messaging a girl back and forth for a while. You tell her a story about a horrible date you went on with a girl you met from the Site. This is how I do it

Me: I don't know if I should ask you out. The last girl I took out from this site only wanted to talk about how much money I make. She even asked if I would help pay her cell phone bill. I was like WTF. So I'm apprehensive about going out again with someone from here.
Her: OMG I can't believe that she said that. I promise that if you take me out I will not act like that.
Me: ok you better pinky swear. I will trust you this time. Let's try and make some plans. What's your number?
Her: oohh tayyy 801-555-5555.

I disqualified, DHVed, and gave preselection in one message. Then played a trust game in my next message after she seeked my approval and trust. Lol its so easy.

This is actually quite clever, all in 1

I used the "I don't know if I should ask you out. The last girl I took out from this site only wanted to talk about how much money I make. She even asked if I would help pay her mobile phone bill. I was like WTF. So I'm apprehensive about going out again with someone from here." with a girl I had been chatting to for a while and I got the reply "well, I'm sorry for your bad experience.
I have my money, I like my independence, I would never want a man to maintain me. but I don't have to explain my self to u, u are already assuming that I would accept to go out with u."

Any pointers on how to respond to that.

"well yeah, I had a day at the beach and a whole night of passionate butt sex planned out for us. So do you get much free time (with school and work, or whatever)?

Not bad, but DHVing yourself, talking about money is not good. Yeah it works, but too many gold-diggers out there.

That's pretty sweet man.

One I have used quite successfully is to say

"oh well this is embarrassing my phone wants to talk to your phone."

You make it seem like you are not the one asking even though you obviously are but 8/10 it somehow doesn't trigger any shields.

And if it does and she says something like "that's cute but my phone doesn't know know him well enough yet " you just say

"I know that's what I said, he is a bit of a creep although he is very cute"

and then give the phone a personality and you can keep blaming your phone for stuff as if its his fault. Its fucked up but it works. I wish it didn't haha