Having just finished another Night of Mayhem workshop, I was at rooftop bar sitting by myself and I saw a girl who was on the edge of her group facing away. I went and sat next to her and said "You look left out of your group. My friends busy with a girl so I thought I'd join you."
"Hahha, nah...I'm just..." She seemed a bit preoccupied.
"What are you looking at?"
"Oh just checking out this guy..."
"So go talk to him!"
"Nah he's left now anyway...I'm just looking for a rebound..."
"Oh cool. Well how about you take my number and if you don't find anyone by the end of the night call me and come to my place"
"Ok! Oh my phones in my friends bag, she's sitting over there"
The reason I said this was because I was already halfway through seducing a few other girls who were downstairs and wanted to keep my options open. Because of my 8hour a day guitar diet I don't get to go out that often so I didn't want to take a girl home that early in the night, especially when I knew it would eventually happen anyway. So I got her to put her number in my phone and pranked her. Her friend who was minding her bag yelled "HEY SOMEONES CALLING YOU!" Most people in the circle new what was going on but she was clueless.
"Call them back!" I said, and everyone giggled. "I'm a pretty popular guy and I have a feeling that's about to be proven by a phone call...". Of course it rang straight away, I answered and she kept the conversation going for 10 seconds before she realized she was talking to the guy across the table from her who was chatting up her friend (me), and it all clicked into place. The table burst out laughing. I wished my girl luck with her pickup that night and moved on.
My wingman had just been passing a cute blonde but he was gone so I sat with her and her amazingly beautiful, angelic looking friend. "Hey your friend just made out with me! I never do that!" the blonde said.
"Well clearly you do, you just did..."
"No you don't understand he just like... tricked me!"
"No, he helped you uncover your inner goddess..."
"Oooooooo" her model friend said..."that was...wow.. goddess…" She was very turned on by my choice of words. We ran into them again downstairs and she poured me half of her drink. We were talking about the fabric of my jacket and I told her to roll up her sleeve and teased her supple inner arm skin. She shivered and shot me a seductive glance.
At this point my wingmans male friend rocked up. I didn't know it at the time but him and the angel were sleeping together, but not exclusive. I quietly apologized to him for hitting on his girl and he was cool about it, and jokingly turned and said it to her. "You were hitting on him..."
"Yeah and I would have gone there too if it wasn't for you" she told him.
"Hahh so you just cockblocked her!" I said to him. He laughed and was cool about it all, and he’s obviously the one fucking her so he's not complaining. I got my hyper-pretty babe validation and continued on with my night.
Later at Carlton club I saw approached some girls who complimented me on my confident and direct style. "Much more mature than most of the men here..." We were chatting about bar approaches and I was telling them about "The Aussie Lean" as James calls it, an accidental kino tactic used by drunk Aussie blokes where they are so drunk they stumble into a woman and the fact that they're finally at least touching her gets them laid.
"That would probably work on me..." she whispered. I demonstrated it on the girl for the group, but I could feel her enjoying it so as I leaned harder I began to bear hug her, eventually pushing her so she had to walk, and since she was flowing with it I just kept the momentum going and pushed her while hugging her all the way through the smoking area and to the bar. I was a totally spontaneous isolation but it worked. We got a drink but then her friends were leaving so I took her number and bid her farewell.
This text conversation followed with Rebound girl over the next few days.
Driving home after my gig a few days later I suddenly remembered to call her. She was already at home in bed, answered in a whisper and we chatted about her night and my gig. I told her to sneak out so we could go to my place. "Mmm sounds good....but....what if you're a serial killer or something..."
"Yeah good point... Maybe text one of your friends my name, address and license number so they know who you're with?"
I knew she just wanted to feel safe so I understood she was just asking this to see how I would react.
"Hmmm ok. I'll look you up on Facebook too" After she saw we had mutual friends on Facebook it made her feel a lot safer. Eventually she agreed to meet me out front of her house. When I got there she drove up in her car and told me she’d follow me so that she could drive herself home the next day. As we were talking I pulled her in close and kissed her neck. I was very relaxed and my vibe was like she was already my lover.
"I'm a little creeped out..." she said.
"Of course you're going to feel like that, you're trying new things and exploring yourself". She grinned a massive smile and pecked me on the cheek. iPhones are so useful, to text and call her, to be on Facebook to her while on the phone, and then using Maps to find her house. I love living in the Future!
We got to my place, went inside and I slowly undressed her. She had a killer body so I took my time slowly unwrapping her. Brown skin, toned stomach and perfect tight ass. I could sense it all sitting there under the tracksuit pyjamas and oversized T-shirt. It was awesome to be unwrapping it because I’d been looking at the ‘dream girls’ thread on a skateboarding forum earlier in the week with a sense of longing, so it was awesome to have a near perfect body like that to hold, touch, and lick.
I took her to the shower and we spent ages soaping each other up. Her body was so warm and slippery, it was so much fun. I would pour a huge handful of shampoo into my hands, and cup her tits in my hands, letting the moisture slip down over her stomach. Pressing my body up against hers and feeling them slide together, the warmth of her body gliding over mine, was amazing.
We stayed in this cycle of soaping and cleaning, running our fingers over each others bodies slowly, for ages. I reached down and felt her pussy; her lips were dripping wet and felt very ready for some cock.
‘Let’s go have sex’ she whispered, but as we were trying to wash each other off we’d get caught up in another cycle of rubbing our bodies together. She was getting really horny and panting, and pressed my hard cock between her legs, so that I wasn’t penetrating her but my shaft was rubbing back and forth on her pussy lips.
I said to her as we were drying off, that even if we had really terrible sex now, it wouldn’t matter because the soapy shower was a complete sexual experience in itself. The shower was so sexy that even though neither of us came I felt complete.
I think this actually took a bit of pressure off the sex that would follow and made her a lot more relaxed.
Slipping between the sheets with her freshly showered and clean body, I ran my hand up her toned legs and found her pussy, still dripping with thick honey. I traced the surface of her lips slowly, and she moaned as I pushed my finger slowly inside her.
She was getting giddy and climbed on top of me, ramming my dick in her mouth and demanding I put a condom on and fuck her. She rolled it down and slowly lowered herself onto my cock.
I had to fuck her really slow because I was right on the edge of cumming, but I had a strong awareness of when I was close and I would pull out and relax. We fucked for a long time, in missionary, then in a yoga position where we were both sitting, then I had her in doggystyle.
As I flipped her over to fuck me from behind she said ‘DON’T put it in there…’.
‘What?’
‘Don’t go in the other entrance…’
‘I wasn’t going to…’ I replied, a bit confused, but I took note of her rush to avoid anal sex.
I pulled out her phone and said ‘I'm going to take a picture’.
‘Ok!’ she said, pushing her ass slowly back onto my cock, posing for the camera.
We ended up with me sitting up against the wall, and her riding me. she was pumping faster and faster and I could tell she was close to cumming but holding back. ‘If you come… I will come’ I told her. ‘Just let go and your vibrations will send me over the edge’
‘Ok… I was holding back’ she said, and started pumping faster and faster. We both came at the same time, but we both thought the other one hadn’t come yet, so we both kept pounding. ‘Come on and come, I already did!’ she panted, and I said ‘I already did too!’
It was a funny way to end it. As we lay there after I asked her why she had brought up anal sex when I went to fuck her doggystyle. She told me she would never do that and it was gross.
I told her about how she was missing out, and that anal can be an amazing orgasmic experience for a woman. I told her about how her sex organs and anal tract are linked and that it’s a sensitive area but it can open her up to a hold new world of new sensations. I showed her a video of me fucking another girl in the ass and her enjoying it. I told her that I would just massage her ass with a condom covered finger to show her how it feels.
I put one finger in her pussy and with the other hand, rubbed some lube between her ass crack. ‘Hmm it feels kind of nice’ she said. As my finger crept down to her ass hole, I felt it opening slightly to my finger. I brushed across the top of it and it opened more, like it was drawing my finger in. As I moved my hand to push it in further she said ‘NO! Don’t go inside!’
I pulled back and massaged her crack again. As she relaxed again, I slowly moved back towards her ass hole. Again, as my finger drew closer I felt it open slightly and pull my finger in. ‘Hey, this might sound weird but…your mind and body are telling two different stories. You said you’re afraid of anal but…when I put my hand near it, I feel it being drawn inside…like your ass is instinctually calling out to be penetrated. Maybe you were resisting it so much before because you’re subconsciously interested it…’
‘Hmm…maybe’ she moaned. It was interesting to see how someone who was so verbally against anal sex had such a positive physical reaction to anal stimulation.
After getting a finger in an inch she told me to stop. I felt like that was the edge of her comfort zone for now, but I'm sure I’ve opened up her mind to the idea of anal sex in the future. I’ve given her a new perspective beyond a painful act that she has to submit to please a guy.
We both slept really deeply, and I awoke naked next to her. Her body was so toned and warm, it was a great way to wake up. I reached out and pulled her hand onto my boner. I pushed my hand down to her crotch and found she was dripping wet too. It seemed we had both woken in a sleepy yet horny state. I rolled on a condom and entered her from behind while we were both on our sides. We kept spinning and getting into all kinds of strange positions, finishing with her back arched out, at 90 degrees to my dick, where we both came together again.
I loved how easy this whole thing went down, and driving that simplicity is the fact that I have such clarity about my inner game, core beliefs about women, sexuality, and myself. I know I’ll be good in bed so I was happy to offer myself as a rebound guy. I think highly of women who go after what they want sexually so I was positive to her rebound suggestion.
I was confident to suggest that she should come over for sex. I was okay with her being cautious about meeting me and understood that she just needed to feel safe. I showed her that I was supportive of her quest to find sex and non-judgemental about the whole thing. All of these things came together to make it really simple for us to hook up. All the layers of social conditioning that stop people hooking up were washed away by a combination of my solid inner game and her willingness to flow with the interaction and try new things.
‘You did a really good job of just making it feel comfortable’ she said. That comes from so much experience throwing myself into socially tense situations, and becoming okay in that zone. Being comfortable with the tension and not letting it affect me
Because I’ve become okay with that awkwardness, put myself in negative situations, that is where the strength to be relaxed comes from. All the times I’ve been rejected, had girls laugh at me, experienced uncomfortable moments.
So the next time you’re out and you come up against those negative feelings, remember that I went through all that stuff too and it is the path to success.
CHAT
