ok so i have no problem with my ex girlfriend texting guys but she had this crush on one of the guys she texts and they have kept in touch for a while... and i see that she txts him a bunch and she tells him hes cute that hes really cute and a bunch of other stuff where he invites her to go see him play but i guess she never goes... but i still broke up with her because we were doing so well and i didnt think she wanted to do that i didn't want to txt girls i was focused on her and obviously her attention was not all twords me which really sucks.... in my mind she was being a Hippocrate bc she told me a couple days ago she didn't want to be cheated on and she hates that bc her mom is going through something similar and she asked me to never do something like that to her but yet shes texting this guy behind my back all sorts of stuff... my question is do you think i did the right thing and i know i can go back with her but do you think i should??? i know this dlvs me but i just couldn't hold my feeling i felt like i looked like an idiot loving her and telling her i loved her while she did the same but txted a guy behind my back with different intentions than just to txt maybe flirt but i just thought me and her were on the same page :/

Wow. Take it easy.


1) Your attention shouldn't be devoted completely to her. You should still see and meet other people, also girls, obviously without the goal of fucking/kissing them. Keeping your options open at any time makes you able not to get completely attached to your girlfriend which is good for HER (you won't be AFC) and especially good for YOU (since she will search for more validation).

2) There is nothing wrong with her texting other guys. If she however texts one particular guy stating how cute he is and all that shit there's something wrong. You should however be sure that she said it in a sexual frame. I mean, friends can equally say such stuff, without having more intentions. If it is with sexual intentions, i would personally finish with her since such behavior isn't acceptable at all and shows she's completely immature and unreliable. So you did the right thing.

3) Knowing you did the right thing dumping her, why would you ever want to be back with her? Forget her. Forever.

Yeah man, chill. And certainly dont bring it to her attention that your ennoyed about it. Wait till she does something totally out of line and then see her off (as in chuck her). I have learnt that trying to prevent girls from doing stuff by telling them not to just shows your insecurity

2) There is nothing wrong with her texting other guys. If she however texts one particular guy stating how cute he is and all that shit there's something wrong. You should however be sure that she said it in a sexual frame. I mean, friends can equally say such stuff, without having more intentions. If it is with sexual intentions, i would personally finish with her since such behavior isn't acceptable at all and shows she's completely immature and unreliable. So you did the right thing.

3) Knowing you did the right thing dumping her, why would you ever want to be back with her? Forget her. Forever.[/quote]

this.