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What you basically are saying is that whenever you are in a LTR, you should get rid of her male friends?
Do you realize how stupid and controlling that sounds?
Good luck bro. I want to see your GF's reaction when you are "working" on getting rid of her male friends.
Maybe its YOU who aren't confident enough to deal with another guy in her life. Or maybe you should in the same time poison all the other guys in the city where she lives, cause, yeah, they all want to fuck her.
She doesn`t have to cut them off completely, just not be going on outings with these guys without you. Most of my gfs never had a problem doing this. In fact, most of them did it without me bringing it up. Its not an insecurity thing, its a RESPECT thing. I also have no problem doing the same with my female friends because I understand both sides of the equation.
Now you are changing the subject. I thought we were talking about her having guy friends. Not about her having guy friends and NOT inviting her BF to go with her.
It's kind of obvious that whenever your GF is going to do stuff with her guy friends, but doesn't directly or indirectly invites you to JOIN, you have to be VERY VERY careful. In fact, i wouldn't allow it at all.
Which doesn't imply that if you CAN'T join her (she invited you, or there is distance) there is something wrong with her going doing stuff with some friends of her, who happen to be guys.
In fact, i only feel sorry for those dudes.
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