Guys,
So I got the number of this chic from okcupid on like I think the 1st /2nd chat itself.We chatted for a while and then after 3 days or so I texted her and asked her plans for next day and if she would come for coffee.She said she'd be going out of town with family early morning and coming back late.I dont know what do to next? Should I reengage in conversation with her online and ask again or should I switch to text gaming?

Did she say to you that she may go another time? When will she come home? Or was it just the excuse.

If it was just the excuse,forget about it,there are other girls,and you should just ignore this one since is a lost case (flake).

If she says that she wants to go with you and she sets a date when it will be possible for her (which by your post is unlikely,but you haven't told us that she didn't ) you may have a chance.Keep texting her,and maybe call her on the phone and talk to her , but only for a couple of minutes.

In other words if she's still interested in you go text her,if she's not,ignore her (don't chat online,don't text , don't anything)or at least assume that she turned you down , and you aren't in for lies.She will recognize and tell you that she's not interested , and flake you.

It is quite possible that she flaked you but, it could be that she really had plans so i'd just hang in there for day or two at the most, maybe get her to know you a bit better before asking her to meet you. Stick to text chat for now, talk to her when things get more comfortable.

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Once again, to all those who're branding her a flake and everything. It is NOT the girl's fault.

How much do you expect her to know you in three days?

Build interest, especially if you're online, unless you've made her very comfortable with you, even if it does take some time, you're getting nowhere with her.

I love how people point to all the reasons except the most obvious : 'Your own fault.'

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^------ yea! Phone number doesn't mean a sure date. You've still gotta build attraction and comfort. If played right, they'll hint when they want to go outwit ya...

Yea ..I think it might have been more on my part since I just had like 1-2 chats with her ....but I hvent seen her online since then....also could someone gimme a link to the standard attraction building techniques(esp online) on this forum/story telling etc etc ? Since this is my first time I have no experience with attraction building .