Somebody had mentioned they were hoping I'd share a few aspects of text message game, so here are a few quick pointers right away (swamped right now, only time for a few):


1) Very very early on when you're texting a girl you recently met, be sure you take the conversation straight sexual. Don't be over the top, but make no doubt. My favorite like is "Send me a pic " or something as easy as that. The goal here isn't to get a sexy pic (though it occasionally happens). The goal is to set the tone for the interaction. You want to make it clear right away that you're not just trying to be friends. If she gets offended (rarely happens ever) don't go out of your way to apologize.

2) 90% of the time, take at least 3-5 minutes minimum to respond to any and all messages. You've got other shit to do. She is not your priority. If she texts in the middle of the day, don't be afraid to wait an hour or two to text back. The idea here is to make it clear she's not your top priority. You're a man with a purpose-driven life and you won't put it on hold for her.

3) Flirt. A lot.

4) Once you've hung out a few times and have been texting back and forth for at least a week or so, follow the 2 to 1 rule. For every 2 times she initiates the conversation, you initiate it 1 time. Occasionally it's appropriate to apply the 3 to 1 rule now and then if she likes texting quite a bit. This will be apparent.

5) Capitalize, spell and punctuate correctly. You're an intelligent, high value man. Don't make retarded girly abbreviations a habit. That said, don't write books. You want your responses to be shorter than hers the vast majority of the time.


Time to get back to work gentlemen. Enjoy yourselves.

Great tips man.

Thanks for the tips,

What do you suppose I should do in a situation where I haven't sexually escalated at all and have been texting back and forth for a little while now. You think it's too late and should jump ship? Or simply escalate the next time we text.

You can still take the conversation sexual, but do it in a much more subtle way at first, the specifics of which will depend largely on the other dynamics of the interaction to date.

How long have you been texting? Do you talk on the phone? Have you been out together before? Have you kissed? Had sex?

How do I change the conversations I've been having with a girl to a more sexual one? We're in Chemistry class together and have mainly been talking about class but not that long, maybe for only a week or two. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

i do not agree with 2 and 5

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Word.

I might text a female back within an hour. Or it might be a few days.

this is by a member name warped mindless match my experiences with natural game, hope it helps:

1) Phone/text game should be used for ONE purpose..to get her to meet up with you. Thats it. Leave all escalation, comfort building, whatever for face to face meeting.

2) Text her something that will make her want to text you back, something that intrigues her.

3) When she text back start making things sexual. An easy way to do this is misinterpretation.

3) Within a few messages get logistics and set up a time to hang out.

Thats it. Simple, effective, free of any silly bull shit.

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I agree with 1 through the first 3, but not with the second 3(why are there 2 3s?). A few messages can be a little to quickly. It all depends on your first meet up and how much comfort you built the first time around. If you send 3 texts and then say lets meet up, she may feel you are coming on too strong if your initial meet up wasn't long enough or the comfort wasn't built high enough.

It's always key to know how strong the attraction is and work from there, even if there was an initial strong attraction often times you have to remind them of how strong the first attraction was before you can gain a meet up. With humans everything is situational, you can say something to one girl that you wouldn't dare say to another.

Text/phone game is very tricky because it involves reminding them why they gave you their number to begin with as well as to continue building that attraction and give them a reason to escalate further; All of this without showing your face or body language(my specialty).

The goal should be to make her smile, be different, and remind her why she wanted to give her your number in the first place. If you do all of those things you should be able to continue building an attraction, and make a meet up seem easier or even better essential.

The more a girl likes you the faster she responds, the longer her texts, the more personalized they are, she'll use more exclamation points, happy faces, and they will be more flirtatious. There is more to it then that but she in general will show her interest with her reaction.

On the other end don't take it personal if she does take a minute to text back, people lose phones, or they work or whatever. Realize that they don't have to text you right back, people have a lot going on in their world and you being some guy who collected her number recently won't be the most important person.

That is some basic advice that I have used and it works out fine.

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I agree with the logistics however I always try to use a fake choice scenario: (Girl bought a new apartment)

Me: So I was thinking of bringing you a house warming gift. Pick one: If I come over tonight I'll get you wine, or tomorrow night I'll bring beer.

HB: Tomorrow would be better I get off at 7pm!

Me: Beer it is

This avoids the AFC asking to many times when she's free shit. Now there's two chances she's free and you don't have to keep asking her to hang out

AFC scenario:

AFC: Hey wanna hang out Saturday?

HB: Aw I have work, sorry!

AFC: How about friday...ect

HB: No I'm sorry your a loser and I hate you... < basically

Plus your giving her the choice and making her feel like shes in control but shessss not!

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