Please analyze this convo on POF with HB 9. I did not receive a response from her.

Fearless: Hey there

You say you like hockey players... I know exactly why considering I am one. Anyways, I read your profile and I must say you actually appear to have a life. Scratch that, at least you have a pulse. Something I can't say for most girls on this site.


HB9: Lmao yes I have a life. A fun one at that! I do love hockey
players and I'm glad you know why!:) How are you?


Fearless: Oooh really? Well easy there, don't fall in love with me too fast Wait, you're a Virgo too... I'm not sure if it would even work. haha


So you're a fun girl? I don't doubt that.

I've highlighted your mistakes.

The first one is that sure you're just thinking I'm negging, but it's the second message and you're shooting off the l-word. Women do take that a tad seriously, so unless you've establish a basic rapport don't use that neg.

The same mistake is what's your second strike. She just replied to your message, man. What's with the over board negging? Couldn't you just have kept the conversation normal and fun?

The last mistake was changing the frame. You were in a "I don't approve of you, ma'am" frame with your negs and in the last line you changed it to "You got my approval on that." If you have a frame, keep ONE frame.

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What I was expecting. Thanks Drapes


As for dropping the love in there I thought about it before I did too. Then I went with it anyway because she put it there first. Had she not I definitely would have known better

Great insight and advise as always Don Draper.

Not even I at first glance saw any flaws in Flawless's dialogue until you broke it down.

I understand Flawless' mindset which was to use false disqualifiers.

But as D.Draper eluded to,it was premature.

She wasnt attracted enough as yet or you to neg her and disqualify her.

That's the prob' with online gaming:the girl can just walk by not responding.

If you had done what you did a litttle down the line,the out come would've been different.

Calibration & timing off.

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Be funny, be interesting, and know when it's time to elevate to more personal stuff. Also, look for ioi's. As with irl game, third blatant ioi, number close.

If you know how to be interesting, and keep a woman entertained, and know how and when to escalate to more personal conversation, it shows you are experienced with women.


Be interesting by using very subtle dhv's. Here's one of my faves:
How does that dhv???
1) I must have a decent ride, thus must make a good living...
2) even tho I care about my ride, I'm more concerned about the cat and it's owner.


Works for me. Don't copy mine, that was an example. I do have a jeep, and the neighbor's cat does sleep on it every night. Come up with your own funny dhv stories. There's more to the cat one in the example, but I did not include it, so nobody will copy it.....

Thanks for the insight Dlight...


IOI's online are entirely different from IOI's in real life. The only one's online I can think of are obvious... continuing a conversation by asking questions, laughing at jokes, and commenting on you personality. I'm sure I'm missing others but what are the more discreet ones?

The holy-Grail of online ioi's is if she changes her profile pic before, or while messaging you. Huge ioi!

There are more. Just practice, keep at it, and you'll learn about what women do when they like you from messaging online..