so I see this girl at a club. i poke her on facebook. had a crazy crush on her in high school but i never talked to her. she says lets hang out. we do. beach at night with a mutual friends. make out. all night watch the morning rise. i catch feelings. im staying at a friends house so i have no car or room to take her to. we go to the beach again. i finger her. we go again. i get her panties down. and my dick gets soft. i get depressed and pretend i dont want to do anything. i think she realizes this. i feel like a bitch. i go back to where i am from. we talk on the phone, alot. i say dumb shit i shouldn't say " i miss you" im at a loss for words when im with her. she has an unspoken upperhand on me. she still talks to me. i sense she has no one to talk to. i go back to where she is. we hang out one night. i get drunk. make out again but she wont let me finger her. i say "this guy fucked you and i cant?". she gets angry. gives me some bullshit excuse why we dont fuck. i leave town. friends tells me she was making out with a fitness trainer at a club. another one says she wished she woulda hooked up with another friend of mine. i dont talk to her for a week. finally she texts. i text her lets hang. we do. we make out. flirts in front of me with the friend they told me she likes. i get pissed.but still end up hooking up that night. no sex. but hang out again watching movies we cuddle and hold hands make out. i leave for college in one day and she wants to hang one more day. i talk to her just now and say some stupid shit " oh if you dont want to hang out with me dont" she apologizes for saying some shit under her breath when we hung out last. kind of fix it. she still wants to hang out still. told her i would. now... I realize she's not wifey type. but i want to lay her just to know i slayed her. tactics and ideas are needed. i need a macgyver on this one.

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so what do you want to do? it all boils down to what you "want". ;)

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I want to lay her. but again i never have a spot. what can i do? should i tell her i cant hang out today. that we should hang out again when i come back? maybe time will makes things a little better and i wont completely shut down my opportunity. i want to lay her! help pua Gods!

Eventually you find that you've been caught in an endless cycle of "Let's hang out", "Cuddling and Holding Hands", "No intimate touching", "Her getting physical with some other guy".

Now, there's no harm in trying for a different outcome, but the truth is you ARE the same guy who's been trying again and again, the definition in that case leads to the word 'insanity'.

Right now, DO NOT hang out with her. DO NOT do anything with her. NO touching or fingering, don't even suggest that.

Unless you can sort out the issues which are affecting you, are there are issues. I'd suggest you to lay low for some time. A changed and improved you will lay this girl easy without worrying about your downstairs and it's performance.

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aight brother. we did stuff after the "no rise with the sunrise" incident. we hung out after that and i got a hand job. i did finger her again. she knows my dick is not play-doh. i talked to her last night for like an hour. i think if i play my cards right i can get it in tonight since i wont see her for awhile, and i want to do it before i leave, but then again i think i should just not go up to show her i dont give a fuck. if i do go here's my plan. "lets end summer how we started it. lets go to the beach". or i could just go and get drunk with my friends. I'm thinking about the latter but its just pissing me to no end that i didnt lay her this summer.

draper. i tihnk you are right. give her some time. dissapear and come back how she meet me.. at first it was a crazy explosion, now it's dull and boring affair.

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