I think driving 2 hours to meet a girl is a bad move. I need to make her want to come to me.

Gapp...that is a decent suggestion. I am gonna try something similar to that I had planned eventually then if that doesn't work I am just gonna go on ignore mode and reduce my communication with her dramatically.

You're still a virgin and resisting being the one to initiate contact... do you see a correlation?

Thats what happens when you get too invested in one girl. Just like the guy above said, you're too damn needy. Get real, man. You sound like a chick, especially in that last part.

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She visits my area on occasion and we have had a meet setup before but it didn't pan out. I am not resisting to initiate contact.

This isn't the only girl I am invested in by the way I am talking to a few other girls right now...this is just the one I want the most. She is the best overall package in my eyes. I don't see myself being needy at all in the fact the opposite. She pretty much is always the one to call or text me first and I know she is interested in me. It is just the distance thing between and personal problems she has going on in her own life that is keeping us apart. Like I said I have been communicating with other girls while this has all been going on as well.

I like to reword things in my head when Im having issues with girls
sex is about the man being dominant yea? so instead of her 'taking' your virginity or HER having sex with YOU think of it as YOU fucking HER big mental difference and saying you want her to 'TAKE' it well that's basicly saying 'i want her to wear the pants' in the operation' you should get in a mindset where she will have no choice but to want you to have her day dream and fantasize get THAT mindset and your set! ^^
stop over thinking and just work her up throw a sexual frame on your convo and escalate with confidence ^^ and anyway you can practice that with your backup girls first so she wont be able to say no when you turn it on her ^^ just my 2cents

Oh really? I can smell your lack of self-confidence from over here in NY
And I'm sure these girls near you love the attention you're giving them - which is great, but it's not working in your favor

I don't know if you're releasing to these girls that you are a virgin - that's something that should be a lil more private. And be very careful, if she knows you have a history of dating girls who don't put out, she'll take it as an invitation to do the same.

Chicks online are weird. They'll sound totally willing to meet,then they chicken out, then they delete their profile. Just gotta work around it the right way and expedite the process.

PS - your status in POF isn't too inviting. If the girl knows you're not looking for a relationship or commitment, she's gonna question your motives. I think you should just say you want a relationship, and then eventually avoid the bf/gf status.[/b]

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