Women like men who they cannot predict...this seems to be a big idea on thsi forum and in pick up. But what do you all mean? What is "unpredictable" but not just a totally unorganized fool. Please, clarification?

just like what national geographic says.... "live curious"

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Basically, you live in the moment. The longer you dwell and analyze, the more predictable you are.

3 second rule helps.

Have you ever laid alone in your bed late at night when you couldn't sleep and starting to think:
- Did I turn the lights in the living room off?
- Did I lock all the doors?
- I need to go pee
- I'm thirsty, but I don't have a glass of water near my bed.
- What's that sound?

If you are anything like me you'd have....and it'll probably keep popping in and out of your thoughts for the next 15 minutes. But you don't want to leave bed because it's nice and warm here so I'm not leaving. Great, now you can't sleep because you'll keep concentrating on that one thing.

That's the thing you want to avoid. The moment you get a great idea, GOOOOO! Don't overthink it, things don't always go as you want them to. So might as well take action right away. Even if it doesn't go the way you planned it, you'll learn something, rather than thinking what-if....

Its when your actions will always fit your character. Example, johns and angry guy, the food at a restaurant isnt good, he throws a flip. Predictable.

What if the food was obviously bad but no one could tell whether he was going to flip, say what the heck I'll eat it anyway, or crack a joke. There are some poeple who have character but dont always act within their character. They are random basically.

This is more about congruence. If the food is bad, you complain as you should. That has nothing to do with being predictable.

The unpredictable part is you don't know how the food will be. You don't know how anything in life will be. As life throws it's unpredictable punches, the unpredictable person will take them as they come. So if the food is good, they will be happy.

Now for predictable people, an angry guy will always find something to be angry about. Even if the food is good. A quiet guy will rarely speak up. A joke teller will joke even when it's not appropiate. Predictable people struggle to keep up with the world and cling to thier default behaviors.

Doing things that are not normal.

Going outside when it rains.
Saying stuff like "that story you just told couldn't be any more boring but by staring at your tits they pain lessened."
Start crying all of the sudden without a good reason. And ask for a tissue. And when she complies you start crying even harder and ask for her shoulder. And when she continues to complie ask for a pityfuck. And as she will kick you in the face say "I kind of deserved that." and start a conversation.
Saying you actually have fucked ten sheep but you really still can't explain why in hell you did that. And then ask her if she likes animals too.
Say you're into scientology and you've met some of those aliens in real life.
Aim a peanut for her eyes and scream bull's eye when it is.

Comon, being unpredictable is just being inpredictable. It's really not that hard.