| Keep in mind that sex is kind of a big deal to most women, so you have to give it your best shot at building comfort whilst still remaining some positive tension between you and her.
Take her, if possible, to multiple places. Try to be teasy and don't go all-out when you've KC'ed (biggest pitfall for most is to consider a win after KC and quit gaming). Do however measure how she touches you and responds to your touches during kissing. Subtly bring sexual topics into the convo every know and then, so you can see how she responds to those and bring her into a mood where she evaluates you as a sexual partner. Her body language will soon point out whether she's (unconsciously) interested or not.
But since you posted this in Routines, let's give you one.
I'm not really sure how this works in other countries/cultures, but this is a combination of the simplest and most effective routines I've seen.
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Mention during kissing/touching that you've found a locked muscle in their higher back/shoulder/neck. Everybody has some sort of tension there so just plant the seed, but let it rest for now. Later on you can use this to build more comfort by giving her small massages/rubs. But if it's possible try to avoid using it YET.
When you've measured her willingness like I said before the best trick I've EVER seen someone using to get someone home; "Wanna make some croque-monsieurs hawaii? I'm hungry" (Croque-monsieurs sound a little less lame in Dutch; tosti's. Plus the pineapple makes it sexy. Sort of) In my city the bars and foodplaces all close at 4AM, so everyone's hungry but you can't buy any food. Because of it's presumed innocence I've never seen this fail, so you'll soon have food and a girl at your house. Win.
Some time later you'll be kissing again at your place, mention the seed you planted before. Start loosening the muscle innocently (if you suck at massaging, buy a book about it. And some oils while you're at it. Might as well make that arousing oils when you're buying some anyway). Most people will say "wow you massage good", because they think it encourages the masseur to go on. Everyone likes a massage.
That's when I say I come from a massage-y and touch-y family, and I've practiced for years (I didn't but everyone can become good in a few days) and that I've actually read books about it, and have all sorts of oils.
From here on you WILL get a green light to massage the rest of her back, and any idiot can get from there to sex. You: "Hey try lying down on the couch" Dim the lights somewhat, which makes her sleepy and send comfort spikes through her entire system, so you won't have to worry about that anymore. You: "Hmm this doesn't work" Try to genuinly suggest to continue on your bed, don't mention any other intentions unless she does it for you. Once she's there clothes can be removed easily ("Hey I can't reach that place"). If you anticipate any struggles there, massage in a holistic visualising manner, basically meaning you talk about the 'waste matter' and 'bad fiber' you need to press out of her system (except if she's a doctor) in a lively manner so that she visualizes is. That way your massage can't be blocked by any of her clothes because she actually feels that the 'waste' might actually stay stuck in her muscles and cause more tension. I know that part sounds very alt-healing but it works on any woman.
So continue massaging, and keep tension up by slowly kissing/sucking her neck and earlobes. If you're barechested try some body rubbing. This in combination with the sucking and arousing oils will blast through the sexual wall of even supermodels and lesbians. Gradually slide into foreplay and you're homefree, just don't ask them, it will take them out of their trance.
This is foolproof, the hardest part is the KC. It is however a good way to start exploring the field of FC's until you've found your own way which comes natural for you. This is mine.
Note of warning though; women closed using this approach are very likely to turn into stalkers. I don't mean this in a funny way. Be careful who you use it on.
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