hey yall
i wanna know if im afc. I've got a girlfriend thanx to the pua methods ive learned here. I love having a gf because she's my first. Ive learned a lot since she's my girl.
But I send her textmessages like:

Dear Jeanet,, I really enjoyed being with you yesterday. You are probably in the car right now driving home, good journey dear honey (L)
Loveu

is this afc talk or what. actually. i think it is, but it comes out spontaeniously. Do you agree with me or not, but she does love me though.

plz ur opinions

I'm not going to sugarcoat it for you here man

One of the most important, if not the most important part of PUAdom is confidence.
If you have to ask if you're an AFC then I must say the answer is yes

Keep working at it though and you'll master it. Having a girlfriend helps even more because you have the openers done. you can practice all the routines and other aspects you want and get a basic idea of what works and what doesn't without having to get rejected. it's quite nice for the practice.

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yeah agree with that, if you have to ask yourself that, then you probably are.

that txt message is probably the most AFC thing I've read, sorry man

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Actually dudge, I would have to deep deeper than that. Do you NORMALLY write that kind of stuff to her? How long have you known her? I mean, you CAN write messages like that to reward your girl for something she's done. But if you did it right after you met the girl or something like that, then yeah, that's overboard. Of course, that alone probably won't blow her out of the water, but just don't keep doing it. If she's already your g/f, then obviously you've at least gotten past the initial hard stuff. However, if you do have to ask, then you do still have a lot of AFC in you. But, on the positive side, you should know how to eradicate that.

well... complimenting isnt something you should do in the beginning of middle phases. but since you have her as a gf i think you did good. just watch that dear honey crap. make her feel good without feeling dominant, or her feeling like shes better than you. since you know her, you will be able to guage whether she is feelin you or not, or what you are doing wrong.

Ok:

1)Never, ever use Thanx, or Plz again. Use proper grammar, or dont type.

2)Pokernumen's right, if you have to ask, then you are an AFC. Dont base your self-worth on others. That's why it's called self-worth. It's how YOU view your worth.

3)Now, this depends. If she's just become your GF, hold off on the honey and dear (In fact, SELDOM use those words, as it portrays a girly man). If it's been around 8 months, then MAYBE this can slide.

Dude, I dont ever want to see you ask these kinds of questions again. You are a fucking PUA, and as one, you need to realize that you are capable of having great self-confidence any many women in your life.

also, fix the grammar.

Hope that helped.
Good luck.

Cheers to what black bull said. I have to comment on one thing he said though. And that would have to be the typing. Now, when I text/email ect. I use proper grammar and I'm straight to the point. I feel that this helps show them that I'm a man who knows what he wants. For example I don't type "Dear Janet, I really enjoyed being with you yesterday." I would type "That was pretty good yesterday, what's next?" and NEVER use plz, or lol. to me, guys who do that come off as slightly childish. If you must make a laugh-text, use "haha" or "that was pretty funny."

Cheers shakedown. also i advise you to never use that sweet talking=nice guys finish last. do not ever completely fall all over a HB, this lets them know they have caught you and they will always get bored with you unless they are insecure. In that situation they will feed of you to make themselves feel better. Always keep them chasing you, but NEVER let them catch you.

-basic fact you need to know-
HBs=cats
PUA all the way! ditch that AFC shit

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and
LIVE life

Yeah..

Excite them,

make them excite you.

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-You cannot travel the path until you become the path itself

Yes, it definitely helps to tell guys to limit themselves by being who they are and figuring out what they need to change. Instead we should just tell them to be PUAs right off the bat and to know everything and be capable of taking a 10 home and fucking her any time he wants, cause I mean, he is on a forum to improve his skills, so I guess he must already be as good as Mystery or Style.

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~ Rye

I'm no stranger to sarcasm, Rye Lee. However, you have a good point.

Regardless, the fact that Stekemrt asked for the forum members to tell him if he's an AFC or not is, ironically, one of the most AFC things anyone can do. THAT requires a harsh wake-up call.

I get what you were saying, and hey man, no one is perfect. I never said anything about acting like a PUA right off the bat. But realize that, sometimes, you need to do a reality check instead of sugarcoat an answer.

You should know life is tough Rye Lee. I feel where your coming from, and I know you've seen struggle, and that's why you should realize that, at times, one needs to see reality and struggle to learn something.

Stekemrt, realize that what you said is, in reality, unacceptable. You need to have more faith in yourself to make progress, and work hard to realize and appreciate what is given to you in life.

End.

Yes you did.

You can't beat the afc out of someone. You have to help them to a realization.

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Ok, BB, do I need to get my bb gun out?

Look, you tell others, like on this thread, that we need to give people a reality check. I know me and you are head to head right now in other areas, and I'm not trying to bring it into this thread, but I do agree with Rye here that you have to help the noobs to grow, and not expect them to just immediately straighten up and be perfect.

BB, I think you yourself need a reality check, big time. You consider yourself big and bad and alpha. Show it. Be a real alpha. I know you can do it.