Hey guys, Ive been a long time reader/follower of gurus like Mystery, Hypnotica, Tyler etc etc but the guy Ive gotten the most content from and followed is Mehow (Get the Girl, How to talk to hot women, 'tube vids etc...) Im average looking with an average build, nothing major working either for or against me, Ive got (been told) a great smile, charm and wit. Im alt verging on goth, blue hair tattoos lip and nose rings, 27m btw..

Ok.. I can open sets NO prob, I have zero issues opening sets, talking to women, being relaxed and in the moment, Ive always been kinda laid back and before I knew PUA existed I approached girls in field with the 'I dont give a shit how this turns out' approach even if I didnt think of it in those exact words...

Now, my prob... KINO!!! Maybe its how I was raised or something but I suck serious ass as getting kino into the mix. Im naturally a very very hands off person, I dont like when coworkers touch me to get my attention, I never ever think to touch anyone to get their attention. Ive read everything on Kino but I feel and I know when I do it it comes across as super mechanical and forced. My natural inclination is to never touch anyone and never be touched, until of course Im intimate with a girl then it goes from nothing to 100 in a flash, but I know if I want to land hollister type chicks I need to come out of my shell... Ive listened to all the gurus advice but every kino attempt I make is NEVER 'natural' it always feels super mechanical to me and Im pretty sure my sets pick up on that, its usually when shit gets weird.... Im not a 'weirdo' but I project 'super weird guy' when I try and force kino... any tips to make it less mechanical horse and more just part of who I am???
Thx in advance guys...

~Trixxster

Hey man,

that's awesome that you feel relaxed opening sets. That's something most guys struggle with and many unfortunately never get over.

As for Kino, for you what it sounds like you need to do is learn to take BABY steps.

Here's the thing. You need to start out with your Kino by taking smaller steps, and then YOU need to be the one to break contact. Where do you usually meet your girls? Pretty much anywhere you meet a girl, you can express physical dominance in simple, low-risk ways. Simple things such as, when you're making a point or talking about something, put your hand on her shoulder, or on her back, briefly, then take it away. Do this in a way where it seems like you barely notice touching her, it's just a natural part of the way you conduct conversation.

When you ask her a question, you can take one of your hands and touch her arm, JUST for a split-second, and then remove it. Weave these little "touch-nuggets" into your conversation, a little here and a little there, and then touch will feel MUCH more natural. Both in that specific interaction, and in all your interactions in general. Then when you do things like, grabbing her hand with yours and "inspecting" it casually, expressing mild interest, she wont even notice it.

Women will follow YOUR lead. So if YOU are nervous about touching her, she will feel it. Do your best to be DELIBERATE with your touch, and ONLY touch her at times you can express dominance or strength. At least at first.

Anyways, I hope that helps. PM Me if you've got any questions bro.

Good luck!

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