I like to make first dates an adventure. Sneak into the zoo. Go to the trainyard and hop a train for a short trip or lay underneath it as it goes over... not in the middle, on the outside of the tracks. but be careful, sometimes there is stuff hanging there off the cars and it will kill you. Jump the fence at a construction zone and kick around in the half-finished building. Go to a hotel and sneak into empty board rooms, crash meetings for a few minutes, go to the kitchen and grab some food.

Or. if you don't like those. Grab a blanket, frisbee, a kite and something to drink and head to a park or beach. Parks/beaches at night are sexually charged.

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i am an AFC, so take my advice with a grain of salt..

girls don't like intense. we guys think they want romantic, adventurous dates. girls do not like poetry. girls are scared by being too romantic too soon. but girls do wanna have fun. but light hearted fun.

if there is a river or a bridge nearby, go to a cafe or something near it, then go take a walk there and make on the bridge or near the river... or you can go see a movie and put your hand around her and also make out if she wants.. thats what teenagers do in high school, why cant we do that as adults?

@jtp156, yeah adventurous stuff like that is always fun....

The biggest thing about where to go on dates:
1. to go to multiple places, so your not just sitting in one place for hours and hours and so it makes it feel like you guys have known each other longer
2. Make sure that you take her somewhere where you can easily get back to a place where you can have sex with her. If you want to get laid on a date, you have to eventually get to a place where you can have sex with her and its better if that place is close by, so she has less objections about going there "real quick" for "a quick drink b4 u go home and go to bed" or whatever the stupid excuse is you use to get her back to that place (whether its ur place, her place, ur car, whatever)

@Jabba1, if you're going on a date with a girl, you don't need a ton of excuses to tease her. The date should be more about qualification, building comfort, touching her and getting sexual. If she's going on a date with you, she's already attracted to you. You should still keep it fun and flirty and playful, but that does not need to be the focus. Zoos can be a good date idea, but I think a lot of times its unnecessary to be teasing her like that the whole time. The teasing should be kinda minimal. She needs real reasons that you like her if she's gonna sleep with you.
AGREED.

@Sparrow, day time dates are cool, but they're just not the most conducive to getting laid. It depends what you want out of the date though. One thing my wing Neat.O suggested to me, which works pretty well is to start the date at a time when its still light out, but its gonna get dark out soon, like within the next hour or so. That way its like you guys have been together from the daytime into the night time and it just psychologically makes it feel like you guys have known each other longer.

But as far as actual suggestions for dates goes, I like to go to like 3 or 4 bars and have a drink or two in each bar, and maybe hit up an ice cream place either before hand or afterwards. Thats my favorite date (cuz I love alcohol)....

BUT for some1 whos under 21, ice cream is good, walking through the park is cool, doing fun stuff like jtp156 is definitely VERY good.

But it doesn't really matter THAT much, just make sure you go to a few different places, (at least 3, if not 4, possibly even 5) and that you keep it fun and flirty, but at the same time making SURE that you escalate (i.e. qualifying her by giving her reasons that you like her, getting to know her on a personal level, letting her get to know you better on a personal level, touching her a lot, getting sexual...) THOSE are hands down the most important things. And then making sure you take her to places that are close by to a place where you could have sex with is also VERRYY important.

I personally have sex with a lot of girls in my car, because no matter where I make the date, my car is pretty much ALWAYS close by. So when it feels like its about that time, I'll casually be like:

"Hey, do you like wine?"

Most of the time, the girl will say yes.

Then I'll be like:

"Cuz, I think I might have some wine in my car left over from this going away party I had for my friend"

There is always wine in my car, I just say that to make it sound more nonchalant. I'll make it seem like I'm not even sure if there is wine in my car or not.

Then I'll just suggest:
"Lets get out of these bars (or wherever you are) and just chill and have some wine."

Then we go to like 7-11 or something and take some free paper cups that your supposed to use for coffee and go chill in my car and pop open a bottle of wine and then have "fun" in my car (I've done this COUNTLESS times)

And yes, I also always have a wine bottle opener in my car, "left over" from that party

And I'll just drive somewhere semi-secluded. It does NOT have to be super secluded in order for her to have sex with you, just semi-secluded. If you take her somewhere super secluded, it might be a little creepy. Depends though...

Anyway, I know that was a really long post, but I hope it helps.....

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Dont overthink too much lol. On a date, i just wanna have fun with a girl. All thosr things as builiding comfort, qualify, kino, tease, push pull comes natural when you are just having a good time and being confident about yourself, and knowing a girl loves it if you touch her, when doing it right.

Back on topic: pick 3-4 different spots to hang-out with the girl. Plan them so they are on route to your place. Im lucky i live 5 min away from a great bar. Like 4 out of 5 dates result in sex at my place

Do whatever YOU want to do for the day, and just take her along.

Ex. This HB is visiting me from an hour away today. She asked what we are doing, I said "I'm going to tell you that we're going to the mall. And leave the rest out." Which translates to I can take her shopping with me for new shoes, tease her for whatever she picks out, make her compete with other girls, play marry kill fuck in the stores, maybe get a coffee at the shop, get a DVD from redbox, anything I feel like doing today.

Dates are nothing special, they're whatever I had planned for the day. She wants to spend time with you, good! She can help you mop the bathroom floor. Lol.


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