So here is what I mean. Last night I went out with 2 friends of mine. And one dude looks like a GQ model. Between the 3 of us we were an attractive group, but the GQ dude had the best looks. Now here is the story. We were downtown going to bars and stuff and we headed over to an apartment party. We met some chicks there and there was one girl HB9 who had probably the nicest body as well as the face. So I hesitated to talk to her, and the GQ guy did for a few minutes. Then he talked to someone else. I only introduced myself and then we left the party. After the party we went to another bar, and the HB9 and her girls said they would meet us there from the party. So they arrive at the bar and I started talkeing to her a little bit. Apparently the HB9s friend told me that the HB9 liked the GQ dude even though she already had a BF. So I talked to her for a little bit but I dont think I ever got through as her interest was in my GQ friend. So for future reference how do I get the girl if I'm not the hottest dude of the group or if she has an interest in one of my friends?

Thanks.

You know the first thing that reflects through your post? It's your low sense of self-worth.

Now, there's one thing admitting that another guy is better looking than you, but to call him an outright model for a leading magazine in your head, is KO-ing yourself every single time.

The rule of pick-up and life is to NOT let these things affect you. There are always people better, stronger and faster than you. But, unless they are going out of their way to affect you, they aren't to be even thought of.
You hesitated, he didn't. I don't need to tell you who came out as the better guy.
Don't fool yourself for even a second. His looks had NOTHING with her attraction towards him, it was more about the confidence he displayed in approaching her. He did not know she was taken, but he did not care to find out, he just went after what he liked. Women have to appreciate that mentality, even reward it, that's what went down there.
You need to STOP thinking about it that way. He's hot, I'm not blah blah. Big deal.

Just focus on yourself and your game. What another person looks like is his business, not yours. Don't waste your time thinking things for others.

Good luck.

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Don is spot on there. it seems that you may need to work on your inner game a bit more bro.