Shes into romantic stuff, but I don't want to seem corny. How should i ask her to be my gf without being corny? We've hungout a few times and hooked up, but nothing is official. It would be better if we were official. As long as its not corny i dont care. "do you want to be my girlfriend, officially" seems a little boring.

Don't make her your girl unless you've already smashed. Unless she's a virgin.

And right after sex is the perfect time to bring it up.

A simple line like " so Wut are we?" shoulda start the convo that'll take you there

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he said they've gone out and hooked up,

i think that's close enough to a relationship,

to discuss it in the relationship section.

especially when the question asked is how to solidly make it an official relationship.

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I disagree Mack, big time.

When you grant a girl exclusivity for just "hooking up with you", your sub communicating that her kissing you is good enough for you to stay faithful to her. Now sex shouldn't even be enough to grant a girl exclusivitiy but it's bare minimum. Sub communicate to a women that she has to invest a hell of a lot more than pussy before you can be with only her. This is why so many relationships fail today. The men are simply satisfied with sex. You have to reach for the stars dude. Build a relationship Foundation on deep investment. Sex is momentary pleasure, which will leave you with a momentary relationship.

You wouldn't build a house on a huge block of ice now would you? Cuz once it melts the house falls apart

Pick a strong foundation to build your relationship(house) upon.

hey fuze, lol, i totally agree.

what i meant was in response to the other guy saying this was the wrong section to discuss it in.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!