I see a lot of decked out field reports. A lot of goals and aspirations. There won't be much of that in my post. I will keep it simple and cut to the point. I have never really tried any PU stuff before and want to see if this actually works for me. I've done number closes easy but never really took it past that. Lately I have been craving lots of sex and well, getting none... Some nights I wonder the halls of my house going literally crazy without the nookie. On that note, I was inspired to start actually pursuing game again when I saw a girl yesterday at the library. I knew I could've approached her. Just really didn't do shit. That's my fault. I've made my fair share of excuses. But now I realize I've let a lot of opportunities passed me by.
Goals: I'll keep this short and simple
1.) 100 approaches within the next 31 days.
2.) 30 additional number closes in the next 31 days.
3.) 5 k-closes within the next 60 days.
4.) 1 f-close in the next 6 months
I don't have a lot of resources right now. So my primary places of operation will be:
1.) The local library
2.) I'll have to ride a few miles to catch the bus and game at the mall.
3.) When I go to the Buddhist temple on Sundays there is a local strip mall out that way, I'll make use of it.
4.) I'll be back in school within the next 20 days. During school time I will make an effort to approach 3 people a day.
I have a few character drawbacks:
1.) I'm easily nervous and shy
2.) Kind of reactive and excitable
3.) I'm not good at telling stories or jokes
4.) I'm no good with groups
5.) Long-term friendships and relationships are not my strong suit
6.) I'm sort of lazy and prone to excuses
7.) I do a lot of self loathing and being hateful of others. I am also very bitter against lots of people, women included. I have a sort of night and day type thing. Everything is good, or bad. There is not in between for me.
I have an extremely busy life so this will take a back end to both my studies and my current projects in life. But I will make the effort to approach at least 10 people a week.
I'll start everything off very simple. My first and only goals are:
1.) Newbie Challenge: I've done this once before but not correctly. I have a limited ability to approach. I plan to do this for about a month. Whenever I hit 100 cold approaches this task is complete.
2.) Conversation skills: My goal is to have 200 cold approach conversations. I'm thinking this will take 2 months. This will happen in the following months after I complete the newbie challenge.
3.) Maintaining relationships and building social groups. My goal is to have 12 separate individuals I can hang out with and go to clubs or parties in the future. This isn't me trying to find true friends. Just people to hang out with on the weekends. I'm thinking this will be another 2 months.
4.) When I get past the Conversational skills part I will start working on Kino and do the kiss 25 challenge.
- I'll make it the kiss 30 challenge and I'll try it on 5 separate occasions at 5 different malls. So 150 attempts in total.
- I'll also work on Kino as well. I've never really pushed past touching a woman's arm
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- Um and also working on my sexual prowess if that's the right word for it. My flirting and kinky skills need some work.
I have a fear that I'll get stuck at this stage for at least 3 months. So I guess I work on it for that long.
5.) Closing: Basically doing the day 2 thing, and basically having sex. I don't even know how long this will take and I won't even worry about it for now.
This is pretty much all I have and pretty much sums up what I want to do for the next few months. I work on one section at a time. I keep a personal journal for myself at home. Most of my emotional life based stuff is in that journal. On this website it'll strictly be about business, just field report post. Not too much about my personal life or goals.
I hope you all enjoy.
::Update::
My first day in the field will be tomorrow in the morning around 10. I'm going to my college in order to get my financial aid approved. Unfortunately I'll be with my dad and I'm sure my dad will be strictly on business, in and out. But I'll find time to at least try to talk to 2 or 3 people. My only goal is to open up people and say in there for about 10 minutes.
My second day is predicted to be on the Sunday that I go to the temple. I’ll try finding a place at the local strip mall to do some openers.
And my third will be whenever the library calls me to pick up books on hold. If there are any girls there like there was the last time I’ll make a post. If not there will be no post.
- My only goals in these interactions are to open firmly and say hello. Whatever happens next I don't really care much about for now. I'm only working on openers. I'll script out some simple and original material and go from there. I'll keep the lines simple enough for me to free style if necessary.
Simple prepared statement:
1.) Opening statement:
- Hello (for women 24 and older)
- Hey (for white and asian chicks)
- What's up? (for black and hispanic chicks).
- What's good? (if i'm out in the hood with relatives).
2.) Girl: Hi
3.) I couldn't help but notice you sitting her all by your self. A girl like you shouldn't be sitting alone. My name's (insert name), what's yours? (women only) if it's a mixed set or men ask for all their names and continue to step 5.
4.) Girl: Returns name
5.) Use an environmental surrounding, situational surrounding, or current event to continue the conversation.
- Did you hear about?
- What are you studying?
- Did you see that?
- I hear they have "x" event going on?
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Alternative Opener:
1.) Sup bitch
2.) nothin' papi
3.) Wanna fuck?
Nah I was just having fun there. I'll comment on what happens tommorrow.
CHAT
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