After the replies to a post that went up a couple of weeks ago I first tried texting her and asking of she had to work Sat... She replied "no but I have plans..." So I dropped it and cut of the texting...

Fast forward to one week later... I know she has Fri off, so I just text "Chris D's for drinks tonite... u n me..." and she text back "What time?"

So I met her at the bar... though I did arrive first... and we came back to my place and I tried the Mystery "You look like you wanna kiss me" routine... but she balked... so I rode it out... kinda froze her out a bit then asked if she wanted to kiss me and from there we did the deed... Which makes twice now that we've hooked up... first from fb a month ago, and now this... and then on the second round I got LMR and fell for it and let her leave without really shagging her proper... but she said she had to get home to kids... I should have made her stay... but I wussed out...

So... what is the next move? And I asked this before... Should I tell her upfront that I'm not looking for anything serious... I just want to have her as a FB for now... Or bring her onboard as a girlfriend and tell her I'm seeing others, or cheat on her behind her back... Which she told me her ex did... so she would probably put up with it either way... what do you think? Bring on the advice guys... =)

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How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being. - Oscar Wilde

Always be straight up with your intentions. Frame it properly and tell her that you're simply not looking for anything serious at the moment, but that doesn't stop you two from having fun.

It's really not worth it to lie or cheat behind her back. I wouldn't recommend it at all.

But if you don't give a damn about how she feels about it and how she risks getting hurt - then . . . whatever floats your boat.