Experiencing trouble signs with my 4 month girlfriend.

1) She recently created an Okcupid profile. I check it and her email regularly because I'm suspicious of it (She doesn't know this). She has done nothing but make friendly conversation with one guy, but it's still troubling.

2) Found a recent search for '5 reasons why relationships end'. Not related to anything I can think of, so it's probably about us.

So, is the solution to run some harder game? eg start making her jealous, turn down any AFC behaviour, more negs, etc? Or should I not be worried about these signs? I think I should be.

You should stop checking your GFs email, phone, messages etc.

I'm not trying to be moralfag here. Nothing good comes from doing this things.

1.) even if you find something you won't be able to comfront her without showing her that you are insecure.
2.) if you can't trust her (you should have comfronted her about her profile if it bothers you) than you have bigger problems that her breaking up with her. Do you even want to be with someone you don't trust?
3.) you will feel bad if you found something and (I presume) feel bad for being so insecure if you don't.

If she gives you a reason (without you invading her privacy) than you should comfront her. Ask her about it, talk about it, let her explain to you why she's doing it. Then decide if this crosses your boundaries or not.

I had a moment of possesive, jealous toughts a few months ago (there is a topic here somewhere). I never ever tought it would be a good idea to spy on my GF. If it affects your relationship you can discuss it if it doesn't IT DOES NOT CONSERN YOU.[/i]

Definitely go for harder game, I wouldn't risk it

something is wrong the relationship, either a relationship grows or declines, are you giving her what she needs or what you think she needs? second are you needy, are a leader, are you confident, are you getting comfortable in the relationship? how is sex?

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There`s no technique for getting a girl to not leave you. Her getting a profile on a dating site is not necessarily evidence of cheating, however it is evidence that she is creating options for herself. So, what should you do? Do the same as her...get options. Get out there and meet some people too. Make yourself an online profile or hit the clubs.

looks pretty bad.

does she have a sister?

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The only thing that could possibly kill the relationship now is you and your mind. Quit being so obsessive, it's only hurting you. If she turns extremely cold and distant, you might start asking yourself questions, but until then, keep your curiosity to yourself.

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