Hey guys, heres the deal. I've been on three dates so far with this really cool chick but she seems kinda shy. On date #2 I went in for just a hug because I sensed her shyness and last night on date #3 I went in for the kiss but I guess she thought I was just going in for a hug again and we hugged and she put her head on my shoulder, so I kissed her on the cheek. We are trying to go out again on Saturday night but she is moving this weekend, so it's up in the air as of right now. If not this weekend definitely sometime next week. What is a good way to K-close a shy chick?? Should I just flat out ask her? Or is there a smoother way to go about this?? I want her to know I'm trying to kiss her lol.

One way is at the end of the date, make plans for the next date. Then casually say, "well, till then, I'll leave you with a kiss." and kiss her. This way she'll know it's not just a hug.

Are you doing kino during the date? Have you made a Statement of Intent? Make sure you don't end up in "Just-Friends-ville".

Good luck. I like shy girls.

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Personally I like to look for that moment when she's giving you "the eyes", you know that look when she's thinking "Is he going to kiss me... I hope he's going to kiss me".

However if you prefer to say something there are couple I like:

When she's in the middle of a sentance put your finger up against her lips and say "Shhh, you talk to much" as you go in for the kiss.

The one where you give her the I wanna kiss you look and say "I'm trying so hard not to kiss you right now" I believe they used that one in the VH1 show

Move in fairly close face to face, close enough that she gets the hint that your going for a kiss and say "close your eyes" as you go in for the kill... Juggler taught this one I believe

Personally, I doubt she "didn't know" that you were going for the kiss, but it does depend on the girl. She may REALLY be that out of it socially. I agree, you should look for that look. When you see it, CLOSE. That's a good one. The NEXT one is the one I was gonna suggest, till I saw The Doc had beat me to it, lol. Damn you Doc! lol. That would be smooth too.

Amazing, I've only ever tried the "shh, you talk to much", but I'm sure the others work like a treat.

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How do you k-close a shy chick?

In one word...

Kino.. Put your hands right about the bottom of her ribs and gently hold in position..

Wait for her to submit, look down, then tilt her head up or bring one hand up behind her neck and kiss.. If she starts to turn away, you maybe moving too fast for her and she may take a little more work. If she's worth it in your eyes, no biggie.. Catch her next time.

If she looks into your eyes during Kino then just move in, she's not shy.

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sounds like you're not using any kino at all man, you should've hugged her a few times throughout the date, not just at the end... you're building it up to be a big deal and its not... next time you're talking with her and she's looking you in the eye, use Mystery's kiss close gambit.. just say "would you like to kiss me?" if she says yes then do it, if she says "I don't know" or "maybe", say "lets see" and kiss her, if she says no say "I didn't say you could, you just looked like you wanted to"... If she does say no then drop her off at the nearest gas station... if it is the fact that she's just shy then I would reconsider dating her, you really wanna date a girl that is afraid to put out???

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Advice, I wouldn't go so far as to say just stop dating her if she's shy. I mean, if he thinks she's worth "working with", you know, then that's all that matters. After all, if she's willing to kiss, even being shy, chances are she's also willing to put out FOR HIM at least. And, THAT'S what really matters. What is she willing to do FOR HIM.