So I'm going to make it easier on me and write this story as it really happened with the real names. I met this girl at camp when i was younger, her name was samantha. A few years later, i had found the camp year book and remembered she was a definite hb10 so i added her on facebook and touched base with her. She and i clicked well so a few months later she introduced me to her best friend Abbi, over a SPAM call. Abbi was an HB10 and we clicked better than i have EVER clicked with any girl. We had alot in common and we never had a silence in our conversations.

Samantha got tired and went to bed, while abbi and i still kept skyping on samantha's computer. Abbi and I talked for over 9 hours, and we never had a silence, we always were laughing etc etc. She did have a cup of vodka (i dont know if this was the reason why everything went so well, who knows, i was sober). Abbi and I finish the call around 7am that morning, and go to bed. I wake up and she texted her,
"Hey Ms. Hangover, remember anything from last night."
She responded seconds later with "Yes! Actually I somewhat do! Hahaha I still cant believe we talked all night..."
I then responded : "I know! There was like no silence either, except when you had to pee like 90 times. Haha"
She then responded a little later with "hahahahah yeah..i pee alot when im drunk obviously...hahahah okay how the hell did we come up with so many topics... Damn everything is so much better when your drunk..."
As you can see, she was texting long and throughout the rest of them, she was showing interest. That night she texted "hey" and i think the first test came right here.
She had said "hey" but then 15 minutes later (i didnt respond) she said, "please text me, im soooo bored". I didnt take that as an IOI but instead took it as she may be using me to relieve boredom?

A little background from when we met. She had her first kiss this summer, her first fuck while she was drunk and a sober guy used her for sex (so she says). She is not a fan of relationships, rather she loves "friends with benefits" , when we talked about this subject she mentioned if she was lesbian she would fuck (named some hot female actors). After which she mentioned she would add me to her list to fuck. *IOI*

The next few days i did what i always do when i know a girl likes me. I get a little needy and it becomes obvious. Her texts remain long for a while but still have a very long response time, i then mimic that and if she replies in 1hr i reply in 1hr and 10 minutes and so on. I dont give in to the 1 minute reply needy text, which was good.

What got me was i ran out of things to say, and i felt like i was interviewing her and being bland. We SPAM a few more nights, and now i feel like things are getting really dull. I REALLY like her, but i dont want to tell her of course. Although i kind of want to be bold and just ask "am i being boring?" I mean, it would really help to know! I cant distinguish tests anymore either. She says she isnt that used to the whole BF/GF thing due to the fact shes a fuck buddy type of girl. That may be why?, also she said shes not that popular (she said this when i met her) HB10 not popular? Well she doesnt get texted often so she says.

I wanna know how to recover, and get some escalation. This is solely a text/SPAM*video*, over the phone relationship until i can fly out and meet her in person. Her friend is also an option, if i need to get some help. (i trust samantha so she may be able to help me with abbi, and not tell her i like her)

She told you that she has added you to the list of people she wants to fuck. Personally, I will have lifted her into the nearest motel, bed etc; What are you waiting for?

It is incredibly rare for a chick to be that explicit.

Weren't you reading? He said that there's no way he can get into physical contact unless he's taking a flight just to see her. It's a SPAM/Phone thing.

Well, buddy, hate to break it to you, but it's kinda hard to keep the attraction going with such a girl unless you're actually physically escalating with her. She's promiscuous and open to having a friends with benefits relationship. Maybe, she's just intrigued by the novelty of a new connection but unless you're making big headway very quickly with her, it will die out and she'll go for someone who is nearer to her.

So, the ball's in your court. What are you gonna do now?

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I think im going to see if i can go see her. Its my best bet right now because it doesnt seem like i can escalate a whole lot further without physical contact. Thanks for that advice. If she happens to contact me again, like with a hey or something. What should i do?
The wait game?

Talk to her. Continue the contact.

Keep heating the iron, so that when you strike it, it'll leave a permanent mark.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

Alright i gotcha. Im guessing i should initiate the conversation every now and then?

My game is SO good in person its not even funny. Just SPAM/text...i cant really use alot of my sarcasm/C&F stuff as much. Especially on text.

Haha and thanks so much for the help, if you have any good threads for "internet" sarging/game help, that would be sweet.