I've never felt it, can't even begin to describe what it could be. Do you guys actually feel love, whatever it may be or do you just say it to women to make them feel all warm and fuzzy inside?

If it's the former, can someone please tell me what it is? And don't give me any of that "you'll just know" BS please.

Cheers!

Basically when you're in love you have the feeling that you want to be with her all the time and you get this positive nervous feeling when you see her.

But yeah ... You'll know when you have it lol

That could be a lot of things, like infatuation.

Love is relative. I see couples that say that they love each other after only being together for a week. I see people who are only fucking say that they love each other. Then there are others who don't say it for months. Who's to say who is wrong? There is no time frame you can place on love.

Love is also an emotion, which is somewhat uncontrollable, and is also a cognitive choice that you control. Love is therefore both rational and irrational because of this.

So ideally when you love someone you have the emotional urges that make you feel so strongly for that person and you logically rationalize why you love them.

that's a "no" on the love.

when i find myself in a relationship that doesn't feel like a second job, then maybe.

i have found that, for the most part, women are incredibly self-centered, entitled, and completely focused on their own satisfaction.

this also translates in the bedroom.

i've had my fair share of lays, and out of all of them, only two women (TWO, that's it) ever made me feel that they TRULY wanted to bring me pleasure in the bedroom. and not to toot my own horn, but i'm a pretty good looking guy who is very physically fit. but you can just tell if someone genuinely gives a damn.

most females think the man should do all the work and worship her body, and if you are lucky, she will let you stick it in. our culture now reinforces this mindset.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Well said. Totally agree with that last bit.

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Grow a pair.

Love is nuts you will know it

Sounds corny, but it gives me a tingly feeling inside when I think about her happiness and being with her. And I put her truly on an equal level with myself. Her pleasure = my pleasure. It's NOT her pleasure > my pleasure and neither is it her pleasure < my pleasure.

But it really is like having an orgasm. If you say "I think I just came", you didn't. Similarly, if you say "I think I'm in love", you're not. It's an unmistakeable feeling.

love is a mild form of mental illness and like depression or OCD it can be treated