So I went on a vacation to some sunny country, where the guy-girl-ratio is like 1-10.
And because I think I'm the better looking guy overall, girls tend to look at me quite often.

First of all, holidays are really the heaven of pick-up.
(HOT) Girls just lay on the beach all day long waiting to get approached...
But what the fuck, I'm there with my little nephew and uncle, so when I want to approach, I have to do it ALONE. (So far for social value)

So there are girls everywhere, sometimes with their parents but also alone or with 1 friend. One HBfucking11 was just laying at the beach looking at me from time to time and I just can't think of anything fun to say to her. Moments like that were like everyday 4 times. (yeah, fuck me)

...SO I just do not approach. Probably because I don't think I can entertain them on such a level that they enjoy being with me.

Luck was on my side, and a 20-year-old HB7 (I'm 19) who was laying next to me suddenly asks me where I'm from.

So I just started talking to her, concentrating on eye contact and body language, but afterwards I thought: shit, forgot to NEG/tease.
Also the girl wasn't good at eye contact, but when I mentioned that I liked red bikini's she said that she was gonna buy them. (I guess a IOI)

She also sometimes just didn't answer a question and acted like she wasn't looking at me, so I called her out on that, saying that she's strange/weird for not answering my question. After that she didn't do it more often, just once, like looking left up, then right up, like there was a plane or something. VERY strange, maybe cause i made too much eye contact? IOI?


I'm just getting fucking crazy, they're looking at me and I got the opportunities, but I just can't do it.

Has someone got a REALLY GOOD comment and/or just wants to kick the crap out of me...?

When a chick doesn't look at you, it doesn't mean he doesn't like you. It can sometimes be a really strong IOI. Don't call girls up on that type of stuff.

I know you probaly read that it is important to show that you are in control of the situation but the best way to talk to women is to talk about the future. that's right! their dreams and ambitions. It gives you the chance to relax and come out of your "Oh my gosh, she is so fine, what do I do/" state of mind.

Plus she wilol probably drop keywords that you can elaborate on and maybe even link tyo yourself. Thsis way you will never run out of things to say and then when you have to go just say " You have got so much energy and you have seen so much, how can i reach you later so we can carry this on" See you aren't directly asking for a number. This allows her to give you other ways of contacting her.

Dude, I have felt your pain the important thing is you bounce back hard from it.

If I call her out (which is dominant?), I do it on a laughy way, like she's too shy to look me in the eyes.

Because when I do it's like I'm forcing IOI's from her by explicitating(?), the eye-locking momentum may increase...

And about the talking about their dreams... Isn't that a bit cheesy or do they really want that? I always talk about their jobs and shit, but I'm now thinking that that aren't good subjects lol. If I'm comfortable with her I talk about other girls that walk by, may increase jealousy ? and a bit jealousy is good, right?

Oh and I may have forgot; When I said I was leaving that evening, I was like; 'Well, if I don't see you again, bye bye!', and body rocked away. Then she said 'Wait, leave your email at the reception, and I may come to you later tonight!'

But I don't know if she's interested as friends, because then I'd feel really gay man...
It's a hard knock life