I've done a few searches and found many topics similar to mine.

However I'd like to know if in this case, im being parnaoid or if i should do something drastic like talk about taking the relationship back a notch.

I went on a week long business trip then came back to go on a weekkend away with some pals and my girl

On this weekend she ended up chatting to a friend of a friend. He is REALLY alpha and as some of the best natural game I've ever seen.

they chatted outside for about an hour. Then the next day the same, and this went on the entire weekend. I didnt see any kino, and im not sure what they were talking about. But I felt myself becoming really jealous.

I havent said anything yet, (were home now) but I have no idea how to handle this.

My weekend was kinda lame cos i was always parnaoid about this guy hitting on my girl but I didnt wanna be the dude that clings onto her all the time so i just let it go.

Last night though they were talking around the fire and I just went into kiss her neck... we ended up making out and he kinda left the convo. I thought that would be an adequate way to lay down the law?!?! :/

She seems to be obvlivious to guys hitting on her, esp those with game!

I know she loves me and I dont think shell cheat.

I hate this feeling of insecurity!!!!

To be honest I personally believe I have trust issues because I rarely trust that any of my girlfriends are faithful even when they totally are. But here's my advice:

The way you describe the story it sounds like your girl is flirting with another dude. This does not necessarily mean she has the intention of cheating (though it may) it could also be a shit test to see how you will handle it. Laying down the law means nothing because if she wants to cheat she can. She is in control not you, unfortunately

The more important questions to ask yourself are these:
-How has the relationship been going? Does it have a spark or fire of something great?
-Do you feel the same way about her you used to?
-Have you guys been fighting a lot?

If the relationship is drying out it is likely she is looking to somebody new...this is the natural order of things. Either in a relationship you realize that you are with somebody you cant be without or you move on. That being said your best chance of fixing this issue is to make the relationship better which can be done by work on yourself. Dont force annoying talks with her. Dont insult or front on the guy. Just be a happy exciting guy, maybe do something spontaneous with her, hell do something exciting without her, make an incredible story out with your boys, get kicked out of a club, whatever suits your fancy. But also keep a watchful eye...you never know, and I hate to say this, but she may be cheating....

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Thanks for the reply.

to answer your Qs

things are going GREAT, better than ever if you ask me. Were in love, and i go away on business often recently, so were missing each toher.

I spoke to her about it a few days later after a CRAZY day on a boat, sunset and picnic (womans day and 4th month aniversary) Telling her that BECUASE i went away, I was looking forward to spending time with her. It didnt happen, and I'm ok with that, But shes gotta be sensitive to these things. If the tables were turned, I doubt she woulda been happy.

She gets it and declared her undying love and devotion. I believe her.

My concerns are this:

I know it sounds dumb, but what if this guy with the really good game GAMES the shit out of my drunk stoned girlfriend... I'm abit parnaoid about that, Cos I know I used to... but I never hit on girls with BFs though, thats just how i roll. And I know my chick is obvlivious too this shit...

Also, should I or should I not put a time limit on these kinds of chats... They spoke for HOURS... Now cmon, shes HOT (HB8.5/9) and this guy is a single player... lets get real about his intentions here.

well, face the facts

you are in a relationship (and in "love") with a woman who stood there all day basically having a pseudo-date with this guy.

that's...gotta blow.

which is why i shy away from relationships...

people just don't understand "appropriate" anymore. it's gone.

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Mack 2.0 I feel like while you are to a degree correct, it's too sad to completely demonize relationships. Women cheat. Men cheat. Still, connecting with somebody at an emotional level with serious intentions over a long period of time is a magical experience (even though it often ends in a lot of pain) that cannot be replaced by things such as one night stands and long term fuck-buddies. I guess you just gotta roll with the punches and hope the ups are higher than the downs. Ultimately, though, all is fair in love and war

Now for PUASA:

So in my life I have stolen 7 girls from boyfriends and in my experience these girls were either 1. in bad relationships, 2. immature, or 3. my exes.

On the point of 1: you said your relationship is going great. If what you're telling me is true you have nothing to worry about.

On the point of 2: Love is really rare. Most relationships either fail or drag on and suck. That being said the appeal of the 'AMOG', or the player, or whatever is pretty large for the girl IF she has never experienced anything like that. She might be like 'our relationship is great but i just have to wonder how it could be with that guy'. However, the more mature girl who has been with a variety of men thinks, 'what i have is great and i know that. Fuck this new dude'.
So I have to ask: Is your girl particularly experienced? Does she act in an adult manner when things go wrong? Is she still sort of a child? These questions should help on whether she could fall into category 2. Don't worry that the guy is some AMOG; if she is experienced, she probably doesn't give a fuck.

On the point of 3: If she has ex-boyfriends you always have to worry about them but i digress, thats a seperate issue.

Hope I helped.
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