was having a little bit of oneitis because i used the pu skills i learned from this forum to pick up on a HB9. anyways to make a long story short, i went out with her a few times, kiss closed and everything. She was actually very into me. The whole time i was gaming and it was working great. I was using all the stuff i learned from the forum. At some point after making out with her and all that, i got too comfortable. I started acting afc i guess. thought i had her where i wanted her. she ended up playing games with me, she told me through an email that she had kids and i was the first guy she had been with since her breakup. I read it over and knew i shouldn't be getting involved. I really had oneitis with this girl (even though i have been bringing other girls over to my house, she was the hottest one by far and the coolest) so i tried to look past it like a puss. Anyways i tried getting her over to my place and ended up going to a bonfire with her which she showed up late to. the next day (yesterday) i finally came to my senses, i felt like a puss and asked myself what would you guys say if i told this story. I didnt even need to post cuz i totally knew the answer. I knew what i had to do and ended it, called her up and told her we shouldn't be seeing each other anymore.

Now get this, this is the wierd part. She was playing games with me the whole time, or at least that is what she says now. She sent me an email saying how sorry she was for showing up late, i got back to her and explained that why it wouldn't work. blah blah blah... she sent me an IM on AIM today saying she doesn't want to be friends with me, like she was the one putting me off or something. Then she said she says she has kids as a shit test to see how guys would react to obsticles or something. Now i am not sure if she was serious with this kids game thing or if she is using it as a defense mechanism for rejection. I just never heard of this before and thought it was worth sharing....I am so happy i got out of this drama queen shit. Totally rid of oneitis and more eager than ever to go sarging ASAP.

I am gonna pick her brain and see what i can find out. If i find anything i think is worth mentioning ill make another post, but i have a feeling she is just not used to getting rejected.

You already know the drill for getting over oneitis, it's been said time and time again.

I suggest you stop all contact and just move on, this girl doesn't sound like shes worth. Whether she has kids or not is irrelevant, you are a male of higher value and she was lucky to have you courting her to begin with.

Move on, find a cuter girl with no baggage and have fun.

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Simple;

she didnt know what she had till she lost it.

Do what you want man, you could easily take her back but better yet you can take her back on your own terms. Make some rules, make her pay for fucking with you like that.

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This is the type of woman who is very conservative for the most part about who she sleeps with. She has a huge slut complexion where she won't give it up to a guy looking for ass and will shit test the hell out of you to make sure.

The kids shit test is basically the extreme as many guys won't touch a woman with kids and if you passed this it would most likely have been her final shit test.

You're getting over your one-itis though which is good even though I think you're mislabeling one-itis in this case as if she was a one itis you would have definitely gone out of your way to convince her it's completely alright if she had kids.

keep up the good work and you'll master it in good time

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man, good job on getting yourself rid of that headache. The kids test has nothing to do with my assessment of this fair damsel, but the way in which the info was given to me on this site makes my opinion of her that way. I concur go and find some girls who are better.

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PuaNegGuy, I agree well done for getting rid. The amount of bull she put you through you still dont even know for sure if she has kids. Ive been there and its a road to disaster

But hopefully you can give us an update and let us know any lessons learnt, and how to spot the looneys sooner?

ok, been dealing with some personal stuff this past week. Anyways, Chikito was exactly right....she tried a few more shit tests though...keep in mind she is very attractive.

She tried putting me through the test and critiquing me.. but i turned the tables. Told her, her test was stupid but i was still curious of the psychology behind her whole dumb thing, so i talked with her more. She did not mind talking about it at all. Basically i got from her that she says most guys are very predictable and the same. The dump her when they find out about the kids thing, but still try to get tail. So she does this test as a screening process for everyone she meets. She studied psychology in school and did a whole year worth of research on this or something like that. I told her that i thought her thing was idiotic and messed up.

I basically was shit talking the whole time but asking questions...the next day she IMed me saying "are you ready to apologize" i told her "for what?"

she said for calling her stupid and an idiot. I told her, the shoe fits and she should be apologizing to me. She said that she would never date me but we could be friends. I told her, that she didn't have a say in the matter of dating but being friends was fine. When i talked to her later on in the week she said she wanted to visit me for lunch but not to try to kiss her because we were friends. I told her i was gonna say the same thing to her. Met up with her and made out with for a long while. Went out and f closed that same weekend.

So, is this a relationship now? Or, are you dumping her now? Or, FB?

I think you played it perfectly..

And here's another reason why you should pre-qualify chicks before you get involved with them.

Many guys get into the pussy trance with such an attractive woman, then it's all over. Game, set, match.

I've seen many of my friends when I was younger go through this.

Believe me, there are women out there who can turn most men into balls of apologetic, quivering manflesh. If she's a great gal, no problem. If she's not? Well you get the idea.

One day you're going to run into one. Keep her in perspective and you wont have any trouble. Mind over matter.

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