Hey guys, new to the site, but not entirely new to the PUA scene. Still just a RAFC, though. I have a question I'd like a little help with tonight.

So there's this girl I've been texting/sarging on Facebook for the past couple weeks. She's out of town and will be back next week. She's coming over to my place upon her return and we're making dinner together to settle a bet.

I'm fairly certain she's interested in me as I've been doing everything right. But she's a serial shit tester.

Today she jokingly called me a player. Rather than refute it, I replied cockily with, "Unfortunately there isn't an off switch. I'm all charm." Of course in my head this was said with tongue planted firmly in cheek, but in retrospect that's impossible to convey over text. Especially since I didn't use an emoticon. Could this have set me back a bit?

She hasn't text me back since by the way, which I'm not too worried about.

That's actually a pretty good comeback. Better than refuting it, that's for sure.

In fact, blogger extraordinaire Roissy posted a great article on this very topic in which he advocates the "Agree & Amplify" method:

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/12/ ... ayer-vibe/

I love his response: “Yes, my harem is huge. Each girl has a specific job to do. How’d you like to be my grape-feeder?”

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Well, I usually go with, "Is that your way of saying that I know just the right things to say?" and smirk.

Works for me.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

Brad P. puts it, take it to the absurd.

But problem is, if you keep doing this, it becomes predictable. So, you can also...

-Actually come up with clever comebacks
-Give a respond that makes no sense at all.
-Answer with, "Your Mom"
-Or, make good eye contact, smile, and say "Bitch"
-admit defeat.