A few weeks ago, i was in this bar with a couple of friends and one of them brought a girl he met a few days before. She was really hot, kind of an artistic kind of girl, but insecure and socially not very skilled. The kind of girl that when you see her you're like: 'Ahw, so cute.' and feeling the need to pet her something. Anyway, i wasn't out to work on my Game or get laid, but just drink beer with friends since i've been doing nothing else then working on my game and trying out routines and stuff so it was my night off. After a while of just talking about random shit i got bored and kind of annoyed by my friend, he was being needy and became jealous when a guy walked up to the girl he invited and hit on her. I decided to talk to her since she was going to be just a friend and i didn't want my friend to strike out again since he didn't get laid for over a year. I asked where they met eachother and just talked about general shit like school, holiday etc. I started to like her and when she started asking me questions about my life i told her about my work, what i did this summer and when she asked about my hobbies my friend answered: 'He picks up girls and tries lame lines on her so he can get them to sleep with him'. (Yeah, he was annoyed by me..). I didn't really expect that to happen and she started asking questions like:

Girl: What would you do if you wanted to get me into bed?
Me: I don't and we've been talking already about boring friend stuff so i'm really not sure.
Girl: What kind of lines is he talking about?
Me: Well, girls pretty much want what they can't get, so i pretend i'm not interested by negging them about silly things or things i disagree to or to make fun of them for funny things they do.
Girl: Would you make fun of me?
Me: Probably, my first impression of you was that you are insecure, probably had a long and hard relationship with a guy that tried to change you in some way (every dude does that shit, really) and overprotective parents when it comes to guys (almost every 18yo girl has overprotective parents).
Girl: Yeah that's true! Although my relationship ended like a year ago, how did you know?
Me: Let's not get into that right now, it's awkward enough to talk about this with a girl my friend brought here.
Girl: I think you're full of shit and this is some prank Jim is playing on me, what did he tell you about me?
Me: Full of shit i am, but Jim didn't talk about you. I've been busy and this is the first time i see him in weeks. But what girl would you like to see me hit on?
Girl: *points at some weird as goth girl*
Me: A pretty one please...

She pointed to some brunette 8 at the bar, without even saying one more word i walked over to the bar and started some routines i've been working on. I did a cold-read by making her draw a heart (i've read about this somewhere) and using a time-constraint. She started showing ioi's so i asked if she wanted to kiss me. I never asked a girl that before, i usually just lean in when i knows she is interested. Without answering she kissed me, after about 15 seconds i stopped the kiss, told her i really enjoyed it but i had to get back to my friends. She wrote down her number in the middle of the heart i made her draw and told me to call her. To be clear, this never happened this easily to me, i usually think too much about things that can go wrong or what if she's just not into me, but i was focussing on proving myself to Jim's girl (Stacey) and it worked.

When i walked back my friends and Stacey looked at me and Jim said: Dude, you're a pig. I told him to shut the fuck up as long as he couldn't do what i just did.
Stacey: I'm not sure what to say, i didn't expect that...
Me: To be honest, me neither...
Stacey: How come?
Me: I've been working on this for a while now and there's alot to learn and alot of mistakes i usually make. But this was a great timing for a demonstration.
Stacey: I don't think it would work on me tho, i'm not easily attracted to guys and i want to get to know someone better before i kiss.
Me: I agree, but only when i'm seriously interested in a girl, not when i'm looking for a fling.
Stacey: I guess that's true, i have never done that tho.
Me: Be proud of that, it shows selfrespect to guys that have serious interest in you.
Stacey: What does it show to you?
Me: You're boring! *i told her teasingly*
*all my friends laughed*
Stacey: I'm not boring! I do alot of fun stuff all the time!
Me: i'm sure you don't find it boring, otherwise you wouldn't be doing it!

At this point she just started talking about how she was a graffiti artist and what party's she went to and blabla general stuff. She started to show more ioi's and at this point i realized i was just running game on her... After that we talked about the game a while longer, she was really interested in the number of girls ive been with and spend alot of time convincing me it would never work on her. I just went with it and acted like i didn't care because we would never find out. The time flew and the bar started closing up, my friends started leaving and then it was just me, her and Jim. I told her i'd leave the two of them alone, and i told them they looked cute together. I started walking towards the exit when she grabbed my shoulder and said: Are you going to let me walk home on my own?
Me: Isn't that Jim's thing?
Stacey: He has to get up early so he's by bike and i don't like sitting on the back of a bike.
Me: I get that, but i have to get home myself as well, i have to get up early as well.
Stacey: I'll walk you then! Brb!

She grabbed her coat told Jim she'd call him. He looked at me saying: If you do her, i will kill you. I just smiled at him as if i didnt get it and left with Stacey.
After about 4 turns (i guess to make sure Jim wouldnt come by) she threw me against the wall and kissed me. I kissed her back and after like 5 minutes or more, im not sure, i stopped the kiss and said: ha ha! She: What? Me: It did work on you! Her: Shut up! And we continued kissing, she stayed at my place that night and i had to call in sick at work since i was up till about 6 in the morning.



So why do i think The Game worked as a routine? Since i've been using other stuff on her as well. Well, this was one of the weirdest nights of my life so i took some time to think about why she kissed me. Even after kissing an other girl and telling her that i try to pick up girls for a hobby. I couldn't figure it out since she told me she never just had a fling or something and spend alot of time convincing me that Game wouldnt work on her. I decided to just ask, she told me she liked me from the start, but i made her jealous by kissing that girl by the bar. She said that my whole story about The Game had something intriguing and 'bad-boy/i-dont-give-a-fuck-attitude' about it.

I did figure out that when you actually tell a girl you potentially picking up this routine, you make sure that she is under the impression that you think she is not the kind of girl it would work on AND not the kind of girl you usually hook up with. I've only tried this about 3 times now (this story being the first and the only one being successful) and apparently girls DO NOT like it when you tell them it's their kind of girl this stuff works on. I'm serious, i got a nasty cocktail thrown in my face for being to much of an ass. I find it an amusing routine/DHV to use though, it allows me to talk about the game without worrying about saying something dirty i did or girl i hooked up with. They know what you are, and they still like you for it.

Please let me know if anyone has tried this before, i am still working on this routine and any advice is very much appreciated!

Cheers!

My best friend's girl hits on me non-stop asking shit about how I pick-up girls, what my lines are, whether I wanted to pick someone up right here and she even asked me to try some lines on her. (Both the second last and the last I clearly refused.) Howcome? My best friend keeps on telling her stories about the girls that I keep on picking up.

What happened to you is the same. Your friend has given you massive social value. You're this kickass player who kills all the girls. She's obviously harder to get (they all are) but you've triggered her female sences. Thereafter you even showed her your skill. She was impressed and she got jealous. You were congruent to your name.

Girls want winners and you've clearly won her by winning over the other girl.

Great story, you showed some great game.

However, you shouldn't have kissed her. Bro's before ho's man. Theres milions of women out there, don't go for the ones that your mates are going for. (unless he isn't a very good friend of you ofcourse )

Thanks dude! And about the second part you're probably right, he wasn't that good a friend, but i ended up hurting his feelings and apparently his self-esteem. I didn't just kiss her btw, she went home with me. Of course i should have known she would come clean to my friend and tell him what happened. We had a long talk and i promised to wing him and help him improve his game where i can. Thanks for pointing it out though, i'm not by nature a good bro, i always sarge alone and usually sober. And when stuff like this happens to me (the way she started kissing me) i have incredible trouble stopping it or saying no, especially when i'm horny!

Minime, great LR. I have a some comments on it.

First, your game was immaculate... even though for half the night with her you weren't running game! haha. But the latter half, well done.

Second, I have my own experiences to share with you all. My WHOLE life I was under the impression that if a girl found out that a guys was a "player" that it would ruin his chances with the girl who heard the player rumor. In short, it couldn't be farther from the truth. When a girl hears that a guy is good with women or otherwise is popular with women (EVEN IF IT MAKES HIM SOUND LIKE A "HO" per se), the girl's first thought is, "Interesting, I want to meet him and see what's so special." It's as if they want to test you themselves and see what makes you "tick."

That's effectively what I think you did with this girl Stacey. Your friend gave you massive social proof as another poster said above, and she wanted to know more about you. As you charmed her, and showed disinterest, she became more interested in you.

I think this is a learning lesson for us all! (keep our women away from Allen haha)

=D

When I hear a girl calling me a player, charm school or something I know it's so extremely on. There's like no bigger IOI.

Nice story, it was a fun read. I agree with what everyone else has been saying, especially about the social proof (and that you were congruent with the stories).

I actually took a friend-zoned girl out as a pivot one time, and was completely honest about learning pick up. She was interested, but didn't see how she could help. After we were in a few sets and I got a couple numbers, she started touching me a lot more (I had already been touching everyone, but she started initiating it) and we ended up making out in a mall. And this is a girl who had already rejected me once before, on whom I had been running NO game.