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a nerd will always be a nerd if he was truly a nerd.
That's a lame excuse for not changing to the better. I don't mean to come of as too harsh but that's what it is. Everybody can change. In my view a nerd is someone of limited maturity and life experience. Well guess what: In order to stop being a nerd the nerd must get more life experience. He's gotta step out of the fake world of the computer games he is playing and start living. The computer games are not only stealing the nerds time they are also stealing emotional energy which could be used for better purposes.
Spending a life playing computer is a complete waste.
As the nerd realize this he will seek out real life experiences. For example he could go out sarging and get experiences in real life by meeting women. But this is only one way to gain life experience. He could also go on a journey to a foreign country with a friend. He could start playing an instrument and play a concert. There a numerous ways to get life experience. Actually whenever you do something new it will add to your life experience.
As the nerd gets more experienced he will become more mature. And in this way he will no longer be a nerd when he has gotten some life experience and matured to some point. And since everybody can get life experience everybody can change. Therefor there are no such thing as a "true nerd".
Good luck in your efforts:)