| Before I start, I want to say that this is the beginning of my story. I’m not going to blather about my ex-girlfriend or how I got here. This is my new start.
So, I didn’t know exactly where to put this post, because it all sort of happened at once. It’s my first official post about going in the field. I am attempting to follow MM newbie mission, and so this was the first time I went out. I spent the 2 weeks previous learning the game. And I was fully prepared to go out alone, sarging.
Last Monday night, I went out to a local bar down the street from my house. It was dead. I mean, there were literally 4 people. There was an old man playing the VLT’s down at the end of the bar, and 3 employees beginning to drink. (I want to say, I only brought $5 for drinks). I bought 1 beer, watched some lame reality show at the bar, and left there around 10:00, pursuing a tip from the bartender saying I should go to another bar.
I got there, and ran into some friends that I had met at work. We bullshitted, and I watched as the night went on. I violated the 3 second rule, and eventually made conversation as the night went on.
I pushed myself, and opened a 2 set with a butch girl who played rugby and her attention needy friend. She was drunk. I used a variation of the jealous girlfriend opener, attempting at use my body language to ignore the HB8. This didn’t really work out for me, because I wasn’t negging her at all, or paying any attention to her, good or bad.
“Hey, I need a female opinion on something. So my buddy has a really needy…”
Shit. I had forgotten to set a false time constraint. I didn’t even think about it until afterwards. They didn’t care, they ate it right up. I got reasonable and predictable responses.
“Ooo, that’s a hard one...”
The drunk girl kept getting distracted by a guy that was peacocking. Shit, an external interrupt, and somebody that was peacocking. He was dressed in a cat in the hat outfit. She kept on calling him her pussy. I was mildly impressed. Peacocking actually works. I talked with the obstacle, and eventually left, feeling defeated.
Staying true to MM, I attempted to open another set outside the club. I used the jealous girlfriend, and it worked pretty well. However, I didn’t create enough value, and so they left back into the club.
I went back into the bar and sat down with Ian, feeling as if I had exhausted all the resources in the bar. There were 20 guys that were getting drunk as fuck, and about 4 girls. It was time to bounce.
As I was leaving, I walked out a lit a cigarette. I raised my eyes, and lo and behold! There was a set that I hadn’t spoken to. There was a blond HB8 and a brunette HB7 standing right beside me. There was a guy with the blond, and he got pulled away by a girl, most likely his ex, I thought. This time, there were no lines or routines, just eye contact. I locked eyes with the blond HB8, and tried to act as if I was seeing into her mind. After a few moments, and a little bit of uncomfortable tension, I smiled and said:
“Are we having a mental conversation right now?” As I motioned to the guy she that was abruptly pulled away. She laughed, and said yes.
I asked them how there night was going, negging them about their age. Both of them were 22. They said they both had kids. That startled me a little bit. I was tempted to walk away. But I didn’t. They were both pretty attractive. The brunette seemed like she was playing hard to get, so I ignored her. But I still paid a little bit of attention to her.
The guy walked back up, and I knew that he and HB8 were going to get it on. It was already pre-arranged. And I didn’t think my game was tight enough yet to steal her.
So I worked on the brunette. I learned a lot about her. I kept the conversation light and funny. I negged her once in a while, once she started thinking to highly of herself. I played cocky funny, sticking to some material I read about David Deangelo. I made a lot of comments on my young age, making myself seem fun and youthful. I employed Style’s sense of tribalism. Young, and youthful, that was part of the tribe I was in, and I knew she would want to be a part of it again.
I got her to buy me drinks, because she was seeking my approval. It’s weird, how that did a 180 hey? I will never bring large amounts of money to the bar again, it stops me from drinking, makes girls buy drinks from me (If I swing it right) and lets me keep a clear head.
I slowly worked Kino, starting with light touches. Hand- holding, arm grabbing, and hugging. Then I noticed this weird look she was giving me. The doggy dinner bowl look. YES. I knew this was my in. I told her we were going for a walk. We started walking down the local paths into the park.
We stopped and started making out. She was holding back, I could feel it. That’s when an amazing idea came to my mind. I managed my expectations before we started while doing a freeze-out. I told her I wasn’t looking for a relationship. She wasn’t either.
I got an f-close. In the middle of nowhere, 10 steps away from the path we were just walking on. The entire process felt great, because I just followed the steps I needed to. And I had fun with the entire thing. Any thoughts, suggestions, or comments would be appreciated.
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