Thanks, I'm going to write her this:

ME: [..] So what do you think of magazine tests? I just read these "would you rather" questions the other day and I bet you would have some very interesting answers lol

Would you rather... have an amazing singing voice but never be famous, or be famous with a crappy voice, and that's what you were famous for?

be invisible, or be able to fly?

have one year of amazing, toe-curling, neighbor-calling-911 sex and the next year of no sex, or would you rather have two years of so-so sex?

Good luck


what do you think about my reply?

Yeah, use one of those questions in your reply, you'll be fine.

You seem to be getting a hang of this.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

Lol, we don't need to have the convo for you man, I think we're reinforcing at this point

I hope to see a RF/LR on this chick at some point.

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

hey guys thanks for your help again! I think I'm doing pretty good...we exchanged a some messages and today she surprised me with something...dont know..pretty sad.

(she replied after a day)

HB: I don't have a favourite childhood memory, I'm not even sure I have any good childhood memories at all! Anyway, I'm off to the seaside so it might take a while until I find internet connection again. Don't think I'm giving up on our game


I'm so sorry about her childhood...what could I say? I dont want just say: "oh I'm sorry.."

"Well, If you find it in yourself to tell me about it someday. I'll be all ears."

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

sounds so friend zone lol.. or there is like an ulterior motive that I cant see?

Actually, you're not pushing anything there. You're just saying when she's comfortable enough she can say it to you. And you're not giving the "Tell Me! Tell Me! Please tell me!" vibe. You're a calm, confident man. Be that way.

When women bring up touchy subjects, friend zone or pick up aren't the options, talking about things the right way and the wrong way are.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

got it! Thanks. I'll write her what you suggested me and I'll change subject asking about her vacation place (she is at the beach right now as she replied me)

Don, you teaching me more than you can think lol

Just doing my bit. That's all.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

Like your bit.

I really like what's going on here, it's the reason you'd want to teach/help others in need. That being said, at some point you need to make this stuff a part of who you are. You should start mixing up some of your own words into this slowly. Consider what you would think your good values are, being a partner (if that's what your seeking?), since you'll be have so much more depth to you - by knowing who you are, what you're seeking and how to get it. Obviously I don't know what you're seeking from all of this, but being great with women will get you great at life. It's the way of the universe!

Not how I would word it myself but 100% correct never ever push on stuff like that, we want to keep a positive frame and if she talks about it someday your there for her

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

Hey guys..I was thinking about something.
She'll land here on 29th. we will probably meet at the orientation day on 30th. what should I text her about meeting at the university?
as I told you, I'm organizing a bar crawl for all new students on 3rd sept... should I go out with her before my bar crawl?
and here, one more question: what to say and do when I meet her personally??

thanks!

I would stick with the third, y'all are gonna be super busy for orientation, too much opportunity for a flake.


Nothing wrong with a real quick meet, hello and good bye but I wouldn't invest too much time in it.

logistically speaking the third sounds like the way to go imo.

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

Ok about the quick meet if we casually meet up at the orientation day. I'm sorry...what's the third one? lol