Today I was almost ready for my sarging day time wingless at a coffee shop when I sat next to a HB10 ...Thats my problem right there...with 10's My brain says GO! but my body simply refuses, unlike with 4s or 5s they even start conversations That tells me that my looks might not be so bad... My question is Should I try at nightclubs or Bars? is really dificult to approach a HB10 daytime it feels really akward. I'm my worst enemy!!!

Well I thought I would pop back in and hand out some advice. I just want to say that you are not alone. Day game and Night game are completely different types of Game. With Night game its easy, everyone is out to have a good time and most of the time everyone is willing to meet new people, or at least give them the chance. Night game doesn't take much game... well not as much as Day game. With day game you need to have a whole different type of attitude, you need to know how to adapt to situations. Most people are not out in the day expecting to meet someone or make a connection. Everyone usually has an agenda or task to complete. What you should try to do is try and get a HB9, 10 or even an 11 to blow you out of the water. You are putting these HB10s on a pedistal that you cannot reach... But you can. What you should try and do is go out and actually blow yourself out of 10 sets of HB10s. You are just getting nervous with the fact that they are in the upper class of HBness. But what you gotta know is that you are totally worth it. You should have the mindset that this girl is lucky to bask in your aura of PUAness. You had the same problem as me AA with HB10s the way I got over it was to go out and purposefully get myself rejected. I would go in and make an ass of myself after I got her interest. Try it out and then come back and tell what you learned.

I'm gonna make an ass of myself but I have to face my fears anyhow...thanks Shaft.
I'll give it a go tomorrow at the mall

I recommend clubs 100%. Countless women, music to dance too, and fun. Solo or not. The only thing that will suck about being solo in a club is when you get tired and want to relax you might look like a loser sitting by yourself, so try and grab a girl to speak with before you decide to take a breather. Cir brought up a pretty good website called brisstole.com(spelling error) something like that and wow I find these articles so much more helpful because they target specific things that i feel I need help in, unlike books where I have to read the whole thing. I can read just a few articles that I feel i'm weak in.

You will only look like a loser sitting by yourself if you want to look like a loser. Taking a break at a bar when your solo doesn't make you a loser, thats just your mind saying only people who sit by themselves are losers... which in not true. As for you whizz kid, making an ass of yourself to get over your fears is the best thing to do. Hell I think I have something posted in the Field Report about blowing myself out of the water after me and Monkey went out and sarged.

This is the FR where Monkey, Mocha and Myself went out and sarged and then I later went back to destroy any AA I had

http://pick-up-artist-forum.com/monkey- ... vt768.html

Just so you know, the site is

http://www.bristollair.com/

They are guys from Bristol in the UK. It's thier Lair. Hence Bristollair.

Cool

i found a great way to avoid the 'lonely' look when you're out by yourself...

first of all don't hit on the girls...work on the whole room and that means the guys...yup that's right if all the guys like you you will get acknowledgement as you walk around + if you're tired you can just hang out with them for a while( you might end up having some friends as an extra)...

as for the origin of the topic - ten in day time are usally 12's at night...and keep in mind they will probably not hang out where you sarge...these are the women worth all our efforts...i have no answer to how to do so....these are also the only women to whom only assholes hit on coz the rest freak out...maybe some counterintuitive would do...like some extreme cold reading on her and how misunderstood she can be because of her looks...maybe dive in smoothly talk to her about who she is....just suggestions here...guess you'll have to do magic reading her and she must be wowed because 'you can see'

does it make any sense?

just do it!!!

Hi Whizz,

For me personally, I find that house parties, weddings, birthday parties, and small get togethers of the sort are by far the best places to spit game. It just fits my game style perfectly. I still try to spit game at clubs and bars, but I think it's a lot more difficult because the music's so loud and the bitch shields are so strong. I use clubs and bars more to calibrate my skills.

So far, the biggest things I've found that decrease approach anxiety are as follows:

1) I frequent a couple hot spots regularly so that I'll be familiar with the settings.
2) I frequently have a female wing with me for prevalidation.
3) I try not to be outcome dependent and realize that as Mystery said, there's nothing that can take away 100% the approach anxiety. You just gotta barrel through it.

Hope this helps.

Respectfully,

M