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PostPosted: Thu Aug 04, 2011 5:57 pm 
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This has yet to happen, but I can imagine in the middle of running game she suddenly will say "I have a boyfriend"

Now, this is ok, but you're obviously going to eject shortly after this, but you want to keep your cool so you preserve social value to the rest of the group. You dont want to just be like "oh...well, ok bye" because that shows you care too much about her (lowering ur value)

What are some good comebacks to this that are funny and avoid it being akward.
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G: I have a boyfriend
Me: Really? Me too, i'm gay.
G: What?
Me: Wait, you thought I was hitting on you? HA! Get over yourself
You can finish your story or joke, then say "Hey, I was fking with you i'm not gay haha, hey nice meeting u guys i gota get back to my friends"

What other responses do you guys have


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 04, 2011 9:21 pm 
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I usually go with just "That's OK, I'm not jealous" :-)


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HB: I have a boyfriend
PUA: I have a bike do you like bikes?
HB: WHAT?
PUA: I thought we are talking about the stuff that don't matter?








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G: I have a boyfriend
PUA: great! what do u say u come over next weekend? he can come too, he can cook us dinner while we enjoy a movie or something

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HB: I have a boyfriend
PUA: what?
HB: a BOYFRIEND!!!
PUA: oh you got a bore friend! , i mean boyfriend.

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 05, 2011 4:21 pm 
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I always go, "woah. we just met, and you're telling me your problems already? Well, anyways, as I was saying before I was rudely interrupted..." Then ignore, and continue saying what you're saying

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All of the lines the guys gave you are solid (I especially like Steps). One thing I would add is that you don't need to eject just because a girl says this. Here are some reasons why.

1st: Most all girls might say this weather they have a BF or not. So why not keep moving forward anyway? If she does have one, but still wants you, you are doing her and that guy a favor because obviously they aren't a good match. If she doesn't have one and is just giving you a shit test then you pass by staying in set and pressing forward.

2nd: Even if she has a BF, and wants to stay true to him, then she can still possibly become a good friend to have. If she is hot then she likely has other girl friends who are hot, and if you befriend her, she might help you meet them. Befriend her, invite her to a party you are throwing, and encourage her to bring some girl friends. One of my wings met his current girl friend because she came to one of our parties with one of my girl friend's friends.

3rd: Many PUAs suffer from pre-mature ejeculation, especially early in their career. They run out of things to say, and the eject. They run into an objection, like "I have a boyfriend," and they eject. They suffer an external interrupt, like someone else joining the set, and the eject. Don't be one of these guys, push forward as long as possible in every set. If you do, then you will develop skills that you would not have other wise had.

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3rd: Many PUAs suffer from pre-mature ejeculation
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"Now, this is ok, but you're obviously going to eject shortly after this"

Don't eject, it may be true but it's actually more likely to be an autopilot response to get rid of beta male attention a sort of test for you to pass.

The best response is to totally ignore it and continue the routine as if you had never heard it. The reasons why are....

1/ She will assume you aren't hitting on her therefore you have just disqualified implying you have a higher value than her which she will attempt to rectify by continuing the conversation.

2/ You're demonstrating alpha male qualities which will create attraction in her.

3/ 95% of guys would bale out at that point, but not you, you've got through the door and now you can weave your pua magic.


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And what if this BF appears after a few moments? lol

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cool, does he know i want to fuck you?


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 14, 2011 4:59 pm 
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And what if this BF appears after a few moments? lol
thats when things get way easier. Don't be a loser and say "oh, i'm sorry" and eject. Say "hi, i was just having a really great conversation with your girlfriend about...." and introduce yourself. Be the bigger man. Be nice and cordial to her boyfriend, and she'll have that much respect for you. But still make sure you arrange another meeting time with her to talk about whatever that you already have found a common ground on.

You have no idea how much easier girls with boyfriends are.

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Before you start thinking about responses, start to think about WHY she might be saying something, it will help you understand rather than just recite lines.

1) It is a shit test. Well by just ignoring it with something like "that's cool" and then carrying on, you passed.
2) She has a boyfriend, but she isn't happy with him. Again, if you ignore it and carry on she will either just go with it (she was saying it to free her concious, I mean, she did tell you but you kept pushing) OR she will bring it up again. If she brings it up again, you can follow up with something like "I bet he is a really awesome guy, right?" and her response to that will either show they are happy together (3) or that she is looking for a good excuse to leave him but needs to know you are better, basically.
3) She has a boyfriend, and is happy with him. This girl will either stop you escalating OR bring her boyfriend up again - when you say "I bet he is a really awesome guy, right?" she will sound genuinely really happy with their relationship. Now, there are ways around that still but to be honest with you - why mess up a happy relationship for a fling?


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why mess up a happy relationship for a fling?
Because I can.

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Once I asked 3 girls, one with a bf. Actualy the one that was my target, I was chill about it. But she wasn't giving up. Seems like she wanted to go on with it.

It was a messageparty, shortly after the little conversation I was talking about above, I asked here to write me a message. She did, but was unsure about really sending it to me. Then I f*cked up the whole. Seems like she wanted to go on with me that evening, but didn't want to risk to much. After a stupid move, she didn't wanted me anymore. (I said something that she has understand as *i'm just curious*, so she didn't take the risky move on me...)

I learned to be very careful in this kind of situations. But does anyone know how to have a good set in this kind of situations? If she want, seems no problem for me.


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