So I was boothing at this religious convention and passing out pamphlets and water to a lot of people, many cute girls included. The next day this random girl who was deifnitely at the convention adds me as a friend on facebook. I never met her or talked to her the previous day but she must have seen me since i gave out stuff to everyone there. After i accept her request to be friends, she sends me a message abt 5 min later saying: hey, thanks for the add. Btw u'r cute.ahhah. So I thought it was little weird since we didnt meet and she's so up front about such a thing when girls are usually shy about such things. But i was flattered and liked her boldness, so i messaged her back abt 8 hours later saying exactly what my friend who is really good with this PUA business told me to say, which was: thank you. but, you know, after dating around ive learned looks arent everything. a person cant change who they really are. so tell me, what are three qualities about yourself that you think would make me want to get to know you better? oh and ur cute too Razz . Keep in mind my message was sent sunday, the day she messaged me. It is now wednesday night as i type this and she has not messaged me back. What went wrong?

dude that came off a little too strong

I would have saved that for later, once you've already built up a little bit of attraction. -shrugs- I would've worded it not so literally, too. More like a:

"Hey babe, we both know you look good, but beauty is common -- what else do you have going for you besides your looks?"

Asking for 3 things seems too scripted. -shrugs-

Don't worry about it, it's just one girl. Make every girl you try to game a learning experience.

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did you really say that as your first msg.

its like common sense why that didnt work



should of said something like do i know you and started a convo.

I would send a msg back trying to redeem yourself saying something like" sry my little bro got on my myspace ... hes a weirdo and sends people weird msgs..... but anyways didnt i see you at the convention?" and go from there

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