was having a little bit of oneitis because i used the pu skills i learned from this forum to pick up on a HB9. anyways to make a long story short, i went out with her a few times, kiss closed and everything. She was actually very into me. The whole time i was gaming and it was working great. I was using all the stuff i learned from the forum. At some point after making out with her and all that, i got too comfortable. I started acting afc i guess. thought i had her where i wanted her. she ended up playing games with me, she told me through an email that she had kids and i was the first guy she had been with since her breakup. I read it over and knew i shouldn't be getting involved. I really had oneitis with this girl (even though i have been bringing other girls over to my house, she was the hottest one by far and the coolest) so i tried to look past it like a puss. Anyways i tried getting her over to my place and ended up going to a bonfire with her which she showed up late to. the next day (yesterday) i finally came to my senses, i felt like a puss and asked myself what would you guys say if i told this story. I didnt even need to post cuz i totally knew the answer. I knew what i had to do and ended it, called her up and told her we shouldn't be seeing each other anymore.

Now get this, this is the wierd part. She was playing games with me the whole time, or at least that is what she says now. She sent me an email saying how sorry she was for showing up late, i got back to her and explained that why it wouldn't work. blah blah blah... she sent me an IM on AIM today saying she doesn't want to be friends with me, like she was the one putting me off or something. Then she said she says she has kids as a shit test to see how guys would react to obsticles or something. Now i am not sure if she was serious with this kids game thing or if she is using it as a defense mechanism for rejection. I just never heard of this before and thought it was worth sharing....I am so happy i got out of this drama queen shit. Totally rid of oneitis and more eager than ever to go sarging ASAP.

I am gonna pick her brain and see what i can find out. If i find anything i think is worth mentioning ill make another post, but i have a feeling she is just not used to getting rejected.