I've read up and met an amazing girl. Throughout our conversations, emails, meetings we've gotten quite well to the point that she started throwing out hints she really likes me and she's sent a ton of pictures to me already (i guess to indicate she likes me)

Now we went out and had an good night with good vibes with heavy kino but she seemed reluctant to kiss close (i honestly thought she had broken up with her bf by then cuz why else would she be out with me...) Then 1 wk she randomly asked me on a trip...She later tells me her and BF split the day she asked me on the trip.

Looks like i unknowingly did enough BF destroyers somewhere and now she's newly single (Cuz of me?)

Looking for ideas on how to proceed
1) Let her go at her own pace
2) Initiate it all and attempt to jump straight into kino and all that jazz
3) Cool off period and work up to #2?
4) Any other suggestions?

Thanks for reading!

Just keep being alpha and proceed as if you know exactly what you are doing and that you are in charge and always have a handle on the situation. I've recently realized just how powerful that is.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

lol, experience is great, isn't it Rye?

Man, if she didn't break up with her b/f because of you, you have an open door. If she DID break up with him because of you, you have an open door. Either way, she obviuosly wasn't getting what she needed from him. If she's into you, GO FOR IT.

See, it reasons like this and explanations like that makes Tripp my boy. He honestly states the truth of his opinion, and as often as I do, I concur. After you have apparently BF destroyed this cat, the least you could do is do some stuff to his newly crowned ex.

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i lust for jessica alba, but now since she is preggers. I am lusting for Nicole!!! It's New Year's Day. It was Ben Franklin who said, "Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man."

you've got to be real careful here, because I ended up meeting this one girl who was in a somewhat rocky relationship prior to our meeting,

the first night we hung out, I was riding in her car and we were smoking my chronic at 4 in the morning, and by 7am, she called her roomate to tell her that she just broke up with her bf.

I kinda felt good, like I had accomplished something, and I felt like there's oppurtunity now to take this old chump's spot with her, and I did for about 2 weeks. We saw eachother nearly everyday, partied nearly every night, and even spent nights in bed with her.

After we went home for summer (both college kids) and came back I called her when I was back in town to see if she was down to chill again, and sure enough she told me that everything that happened between us last semester was COMPLETELY akward, and she wasn't ready for any relationship blah blah (well neither was I, I just wanted a fuckbuddy, and someone to blaze with) needless to say we haven't talked since then, and it's been oh, 3 months. Did I mention she has been in a relationship for the last two and a half of the three? The bitch has issues.

Needless to say, stride this one out, she may be dumping tons of IOI's on you, and asking you to come on a trip with her, but take your time man you don't want to be somebody's rebound.

CrazyLegz, depends on what he's looking for. A short term g/f or a LTR. Or, maybe just a temporary FB. Then again, she may not even be like the girl you were with. But, regardless of whether she is or not, he WILL still benefit from it. He'll learn during the process and if she's any good in the sack, he'll have a great time while he's learning. Of course, if HE'S any good in the sack, she will stick around longer too, no matter what she's really wanting.